My boyfriend has tried many times convince me on trying anal sex, but am so scared! I asked him that if i dont please him enough, he said yes but I would please him more if I just let him do it ther. But how do i know that it is not dangerous? That i could go to the hospital? lol But for real, am so scared. He has tried fingers and touching but i stop him. He once try to put it in thru mt ass and it hurt so much that i almost cried Does anyone have good advice for me? I want someones opinion on it. Iwant to be able to please my boyfriend