Married guy 29

Update, just purchased an anal dildo starter kit with the proper lube. Plan on breaking it out and surprising my wife with it. Not sure how she will react, but also looking at pulling up some bi sexual porn while doing it. If she’s into it at all it will be a good Segway to ask about a couples 4 way with her 2 friends. Not sure it will go well at all, but I’m ready to let her know she is my only love, but I have wild bi fantasies. I’d also get off to see her get nailed by the other male, and pound his girl too, then after suck off the guy and have the two girls play with each other. Maybe I’ll get into a fight and loose her on this, but my bi desire to hold another guys cock were always there. I’m into both pussy and dick but haven’t had as much cock and it makes me want it that much more...

Married 29 year old here. Sex with the wife is getting boring and I’ve been having bi fantasies lately. Long story but I have sucked off my best friend before the wedding. Think it’s a mix of pre marital desire to live it up and long time bi curiouse thoughts. Just bought some anal dildoes for beginners and plan on surprising my wife with asking her to ram me. Then I’ll put on some bi porn n let her know the pussy and dick turn me on. We talked about a 3 way way befor the marriage and I always acted macho but I’m tired of hiding my desires. I want to fuck her and suck a dick. She has a sexy friend couple and I’d really like to have a 4 way where we all play with each other. Not sure how it’s going to go down and I’m scared I’ll make her afraid that I’m gay. Even if I am bi sexual I’ve omly had sex with women. Not sure how to tell her I want to live my life with her, but also have a wife sex life with males as well. Sometimes I can’t cum when having sex with her and I think she suspects something is up. I want to live and love her, but I get so hard thinking of sucking a dick sometimes that I don’t know what to do. Don’t want to stop the sex with her, maybe some bi porn n the dildoes will do it, but it’s the sucking of a dick that won’t be cured by movies and toys. What do i do?

Thoughts of “gay” sex is normal. Most every guy would suck his own dick if he could and when u think about pleasure all sortes of strange thoughts are bound to show up. important thing is to stay faithful to ur wife. if you’ve never been with a guy are you just now feeling curious about it or have you always had thoughts and never acted on them and now it sex life is getting dull? I’m happily married but will from time to time check out gay porn or fantasies of when I was younger and let my friend give me my first bj. We were both guys in the 7th grade. Young dumb and horney. I didn’t finish in his mouth cus I was too ashamed at the time so didn’t enjoy it as much as I couldn’t and did t return the bj to him. Now it think of what we could’ve done and it gets me off ill always stay faithful to my wife, but fantasies are normal. Talk to her about spicing sex up

Why is it a turn on for us guys to show off or hard cocks for all to see? I get horney thinking of showing my hard cock off the my wife’s hot friends, fantasies of them walking in on me. Even a bi fantasy in the guys room at the gym, just gets me horney thinking of showing my cock off. nice tats and nice cock, good shave job as well!

I’m a good guy that has never done any sexual acts that are illegal and I’ve never hurt or assaulted anyone. So why do I get turned on by sexual taboo like forced sex, forced sex or sex with a sleeping step sisters, and worst of all rape. I know it is wrong and a horrible reality in this world, but when I watch a movie with a rape / molestation scene I get a boner. I know it is wrong a will never acts on these thoughts but is this normal to get horney at the thought of rape? Is it the evolution of man to have urges for sex no matter the consequences? Apparently so and if we are not smarter than our primal sexual lust and strong desire of pleasure My wife is passed out downstairs and her hot friend is here. We just smoked a cigarette together and now all I can think of is getting her outside again and getting into her pants,. Angain, I won’t and know it is wrong, but I’ll be jerking off to the tohougt of forcing my cock into her pussy while she says no. No, stop, and that hurts are all words that turn me on. Why am I such a sexual monster. My wife was molested as a child and so was I. Is it like being bullied? That if u go through it u are likely to do it later on in life? It’s not illegal to have sick thoughts, it is illegal to act on them. Sometimes when I get bored I decid to jerk off for the pleasure but I don’t use porn so I start fantasizing and when girls don’t get me hard I think of sick thinks like when I was molested and I get horney. As soon as I come if feel horrible for what just got me off, but then I get a Bonner latter in the day and pick up where I left off with the same thoughts. I think I need help and done know where to look for it. I’m not a pedofile, but I’ve been jerking off and thoughts of little girls and boys will come into my head and it makes my orgasmes stronger. I know it is wrong, but what can I do? I’ve thought about chopping my dick off before due to how strong the feelings in my pants get. The more I think of rape / forced sex and fantacies of taboo and down rite illegal acts the mote the thoughts show up in life so I know I should stop the thougts, but then I don’t get hard or horney enough to come and that is one of my greatest pleasures in life so I continue the mental fantasies and feel great pleasure while coming followed by feelings of disparity hope this doesn’t scare you. I am not a preditor and would like to stope being aroused by these throughs. Is this normal and how do I get help? I’m scared I’d get the cops called on me if I told a physic that I get aroused by not ok things

I think all guys have at least cum to to thought of playing around w another guy. I was raised Catholic so always felt like I was bad for having thoughts of doing stuff w guys but that didn’t stop me. I’m married now and have no regrets in being with her for the rest of my life, but still sometimes fantasies of having an all out 4 way with her friend couple especially the guy and I and other times still jerk off to thoughts of another guys hard cock. I was sexually molested at a very young age and though I don’t even remember it I always attributed any gay thoughts to that, but it’s probably just been a scape goat. if any guy could give himself a bj they would do it. All my male friends have joked about it so what makes another guys boner different. first time I had a sexual feeling in my pants was thinking about seeing my male friends dick and we were too young to know what to do with them Other than to look at them, I think I was like less than double digit in age. Was able to show my wiener off and then he showed me his. No boners but the feeling of exposing myself to another guy made me tingle. Did something similar with a Neighboor girl that was a year older than me and was too scared to show off my dick. We just showed our underwear to each other. Guess I’m more confident around guys? then in 7th grade my I slept over at my best friends house and he had a hardcore porn video that w watched when his parents went to sleep. He suggested that it’s fine if we both jerk off. I was uncomfortable about it, but couldn’t deny my dick was all for it, the jerking and seeing my friends Bonner. when we were jacking off (on separate couches) he told me about how he n another friend gave each other blow jobs and he said we should give each other bj’s. I Was Horney and ashamed but did let him suck on my teen cutouts boner after some convincing. Not like I hadn’t though if it, but felt to ashamed. ( fantasys if gay things with my bj friend started after my two good male friends wanted me to join in to compare dick sizes in the school bathroom- boner size but that’s another story) The BJ did feel good but I stoped it before I came. First one, but coming from some one that also had a cock it wasn’t a great bj. He sucked my dick like a popsicle, but that was all. Guess I’m a hard cock to please. The gay guilt made me not enjoy it also. Not sure if it’s because of that but I’ve only ever come twice from a bj and I had to litteraly fuck their head to cum. Not sure if it’s cus I jerk off to much or what, but I’ve even intentionally not masturbated for over 3 days in an attempt to get off by a bj from my wife and couldn't in college I was looking for only pussy and after a 1 year dry spell I stared searching online for hook up sites and after clicking on many links found a just for guys web site. After a lot of looking I did end up meeting up with a decently older guy. Had fantasies of blowing my friend from 7th grade and wanted to know what it was like. Sucked him off after some whiskey drinks and neither of us could come. After that night I realized i like giving almost better than receiving, and was also glad I didn’t get the guy to come because I didn’t use protection. Tested 1 year ago and I’m 100 percent std clean. Still sometimes jerk off to thoughts of my 7th grade friend and how I would have done it differently. Could have explored more had I not been so self ashamed. then 5 years ago my male friend since sofmore year of highschool did some coke with me (my first time doing that) and it made me supper horney for him. We were in his car and I suggested we jerk each other off. Scared the shit out of him, but the funny part is after some personal conversation (mostly everything above) he was horney and down. I told him how I was molested as a boy and tried to blame that and the coke on my boner and sexual feeling towards him, the crazy part is that he was also molested as a boy and remembers it well enough for detials. He half liked it because he was just learning how to jack off. Was his best friends older brother. Made me wonder if being molested/ felt up as a boy gave us desire for male on male action or if all guys just get hard and have different feelings at different times. We eneded up naked in my basement jerking each other and then cus of how horney I was I got down and started blowing him like I’ve always wanted to be blown. Hands all over his balls n tank, humming hard on it, and jerking the base off. Gota give props to the women out there that give good head, mouth gets sore shortly into it. I ended up coming on him before he came and started to feel bad about doing gay stuff so wasn’t interested in sucking his boner anymore. I did jerk him off and he did end up nutting. Never tasted cum in my life. When I’m horney I think about tasting my own but as soon as I come that thought goes away - at least not horney enough to do it after the Jiz is there. You guys ever taste Jiz? Ur own or other? What’s it taste like and is it true that tropical drinks like pineapple and mango juice make it taste good? to wrap this up, I convinced my straight friend to a jerk off n then a bj. I want to think thatAll guys have at least at one point thought about it. Any guys have theses feeling and not been felt up as a boy?

Hey there, just posted a story/ advice request about a4 way fantasy w my wife n her friend couple. Female and male. take a look and add a comment if u don’t mind. Looking for advice and if nothing else a way to share my “not normal” fantasy’s and to get some ideas for the spank bank 😏 couples 4 way are the words to search for thanks

Side note that I forgot to bring up, how would we bring it up to the friend couple if my wife was into it? Anybody with experience in this? Bring it up over drinks w all people there or should I bring it up with the guy and see if we can convince the women to do it and how to mention to the male that I’d be down to have some guy on guy fun as well

Married guy here with a beautiful wife and awesome 1.5 year old boy. Our relationship is great, but our sex life is getting boring. not trying to create a long story... typing on my cell phone... but the short of of is that Ive been having fantasies about her friend couple n want to bring it up with my wife but not sure how. Especially when In my fantasy we’re all doing stuff, myself and my wife’s friend’s boyfriend. Not sure if all guys went through a bye fase but I did and still think about it. i chose my wife and will only be faithful to her and I’m not sure what to do here. Any advice would be awesome. Trying to find a way to tell her my sexual fantasies without scaring her away. Especially if I bring up the male part. We never went into detail about my full sexual past and also worried about beinging that up... Cheers!