I'm committed to him and have been for 10 yrs. I am 51 yrs old and he is 52 yrs old. He always has had a very strong sex drive but the last few yrs has been different. I hope it's age thats the problem and not that I don't turn him on anymore. I am shy when it comes to talking about sex with him. I have my toys to satisfy myself, but he doesn't know.