perkynipples

Big daddy, I thought they all came with open crotches! I assume that's so if you have to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, it's less hassle???!!! Right?

I have seen a number of bodystockings on lingerie sites. What do men think of those..........especially the sheer or lace kind? (They sort of remind me of feet-ie pajamas I used to wear as a kid............only with a sexier slant to them.) Do men find them sexy? And for the women who wear them, are they comfortable to actually sleep in?

How thoughtful of you to ask..................yes, I would agree with HappilyMarried2.......diamonds really are a woman's best friend! (P.S. Most women do not want to "squint" to find the diamond! ha! Enjoy shopping......you should find plenty of sales right now............Happy Anniversary.

Big Daddy, You have a great sense of humor........... (Can you tell that I'm bored and this is all that I'm doing?) I was always curious what men wanted. Honest, I've never shaved it all off.......I would think the bumps alone would be very unattractive. I'm a neatly shaved, trimmed sort of gal. I once asked my husband on this topic and he thought "shaved" was unnatural. Perky Nipples..........

Thanks for your input. I have been married five years. It's probably been 8 months or so.........I really don't remember. It's been so frustrating that I have probably blocked the actual time out. No, he doesn't take any medicine. He says it's his age (42) and that he has gained weight. He works really hard...........and when he comes home, he is always tired. When I mentioned the vibrator idea, he seems real upset....like I have offended him. He does not want to do anything with that idea. Yes, I've expressed my frustration numerous times. He listens and then usually leaves me a note the next morning about how much he loves me and how sorry he is. I've discussed his going to the doctor..........he never comments. I believe he is too embarassed to discuss this situation. Honestly, since we've been married, I believe he has problems with erectile dysfunction. (I've never encountered this before so it is difficult to understand.) Unfortunately, as I've explained to him, I take all of this so personally. It's amazing to me that I'll have men look up, try and flirt with me, watch me, etc. etc. in stores, while driving, and out in the public...........and yet I can't get my own husband interested in me sexually. I feel like I could open my own sexy lingerie store by now.......I've purchased so many things. They do make me feel better about myself.........but then when he doesn't even touch me or say anything, I feel even more depressed. (Like right now, for this evening, I have on a real low-cut..........I'm a 36C........see through baby doll........that is open all the way down the front.....and has a matching see through thong. I have open bust baby dolls, open bust bras with thongs, a teddy with holes just for the nipples to pop out and an open crotch and butt .....and of course, my "perky nipples" show through everything (I thought that was supposed to be a turn on for guys! ha!) I've mentioned some sexual enhancement type pills and he says that he believes they are dangerous. He is a wonderful, very nice-looking man, and swears to me he's not gay! He treats me great.........except for this intimate problem that we have. I thought most men would love to have this problem.........a wife dressing up in sexy lingerie every night who wants to be touched and have sex a lot......... So, any other thoughts? This hurts my self-esteem and I'm normally a pretty confident professional woman.

I am apprehensive about using vibrators, but unfortunately, my husband has lost all interest in having sex. I'm an attractive female with a decent body. I wear sexy lingerie all of the time to bed and still nothing. So, I am considering buying a vibrator. I think about sex way too much....and I feel lonely. This is really unchartered territory for me so what is a good "beginner's model" type/kind to buy?