Husband b

Can anyone suggest anything? I’m at my wits end. my wife’s desire is so different than mine. We have tried several things, she’ll give blowjobs, a few different positions. We have tried anal but she doesn’t like. I have suggested so many other things and there is always a response of hesitancy. I do t think I’ve really ever given her a reason not to trust me, but it’s always there. It’s like I’m the guy on the roller coaster sitting in the front car, hands up, eyes wide open, smiling and enjoying every bit. She is sitting somewhere in the middle hanging on for dear life, Estes closed and resistant to even being on the ride. Maybe extreme analogy, but you get it. How can I help her free herself up to fully enjoy. Also she kind of makes me feel ashamed that I even think about some of the things I might bring up, like using dildos or any kind of restraint for either person. Help!!!