For several years I have been turned on by the thought of my wife having sex with other guys. Now my ED is causing a lot of issues and currently we’ve had sex once in a year. (Not exaggerating) I want her to be happy and she definitely needs what i can’t give her. I have asked her a couple years ago to have sex with another guy but she doesn’t want to do it. How do I convince her that it’s ok if she sleeps with another guy?