My man doesn’t engage in any sexual relations with me. The only thing he constantly requests is for me to go under the blanket and give him head and usually this lasts hours long of him not moving. He doesn’t eat me out, he doesn’t dirty talk me, he doesn’t finger me, he doesn’t kiss me, he doesn’t stroke me. Nothing enticing. So now the head I give him has become so boring for me I’m always just waiting for it to be over with. I’ve had several talks with him about my needs but it never changes anything. I usually have to get off privately in the shower. I have to satisfy everyone else, then I’m stuck being left without satisfaction.