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New to posting here. Thinking it might help to just get it out into the ether. happily married for 6 years now. Have enjoyed experiencing crossdressing and am encouraged to do so by my wife. We have children so it does complicate things but I try to take advantage of the chances I get. My wife is bi and has been with other women but it was back in college. I had chances to be with other men, never acted on it. My wife is aware of my curiosity but the situation doesn’t really allow for me to progress beyond that. We both quit drinking a year or so ago and her desire for sex has gone to nothing. it’s been over six months since we were intimate sexually. I miss it. I feel the urge to talk about it but we have in the past and it’s turned into a yelling match because we both miss it but she has no urge or desire for sex. sobriety has been a blessing in so many ways! but it has opened the door to other things that she either doesn’t want to or isnt ready to address. I can’t be the only person dealing with something like this. I don’t bring it up because I don’t want to fight but I miss her touch and I know that sounds selfish and immature. I just needed to get this off my chest. Thanks for your time.

Married male here. My wife and I are very open about our pasts and curiosities. She has been with women before. We have recently had a conversation about the thought of a threesome with another woman. We both liked the idea but then the possible drawbacks quickly became the topic. Jealousy was the big concern for both of us. Another wrinkle to this is that I’m curious about pegging and maybe even curious about being with another male. Her response was, that would be hot as hell to be sucking you off while a guy fucks you. I’m here to get thoughts from curious people like me and those of people that have already shared these experiences. Where would one go about meeting people that share the same curiosity? I also think I just needed a forum to get my thoughts out there. Please share. Thanks and Happy New Year!!!