Tdog

Jen, My wife and I were very inexperienced when we married. We find it difficult to make our sex life spicy. I ask for new things or try to do this or that different but she is hesitant to broaden her horrizens. She admitted to me that she has a hard time fantisizing and doesn't masturbate at all ever! She feels that if she knew more about her own sexual response she might be more knowledgable in bed. I have gotten her vibrators, dildos, lubes, the works. But she says she can't find the motivation to use it and she has not even tried some items. So I got her DVD's, offered to get her romance novels (the explicit kind) but she says she doesn't like to read. What would be a good material to "get her in the mood" to experiment, learn about herself, and bring that to bed with her? Should I try mags like Playgirl? What is left that I am missing? She holds back so much and fears being "out of control." Any tips? Please help!