My husband and I were married for 19 years, we got a divorce and we were apart for a year and half, in that time I had sexual Partner that gave me mind blowing sex, I was able to have multiple orgasms with this man, he was very good at what he did, we had sex everyday for about a year and then due to the fact I wasn’t in love with him and other circumstances we broke up, now I am back with my husband (long story) and we are remarried, we are deeply in love with one another but our sex life is not good, we have sex maybe once a month…he works hard and is always exhausted and is sleeping by the time he hits the pillow, and the foreplay isn’t there. The sex is ok, but I learned so much about myself when with the other man that I am just not satisfied with the sex I have with my husband but I don’t know how to tell him what I want without feeling guilty, I learned this all with another man and I don’t want him to feel bad because I am not happy or satisfied with the sex we do have. He always makes sure I have an orgasm but I need more, not just orgasms but more intensity and pleasure…I don’t know what to do.
