BB BDSM Tips
Now that you know the basics, understand that there are levels to BDSM. Beginners often introduce BDSM by starting off light and playful with soft cuffs, a blindfold, or maybe some spanking (love taps) with the hand or small leather paddle. A little more intense is wax play, bondage rope or tape, or ball gags. From here, play can segue into bed restraints, swings, masks, and floggers. Still, these can be considered on the less intense part of the spectrum. BDSM can serve as a lifestyle, where play is no longer just an agreed upon period of time, but a way of life that is experienced 24/7/365.
Now that you are a little more clear on what BDSM actually is, maybe you want to have a conversation with your partner to introduce BDSM into your sexy time. Some things may sound interesting or exciting and you feel eager about trying them out. Some others may seem intriguing, but also intimidating so you feel a bit more cautious. Either way, introducing BDSM by whipping out a pair of cuffs on an unsuspecting partner is not the coolest thing you could do. There may be sensory issues or traumas that you aren’t aware of. What may be sexy to you could be devastating to your partner.