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Okay, I'll be honest. I am a happily married woman, who is in love with another man. I know this sounds ridiculous, but I am afraid it is true. I met this man in October of last year, and it has slowly progressed. This is something I never thought would happen to me. My husband knows almost everything about my past, and sex is fantastic, (finally) after 13 years. We are really open with each other, and the needs we both have. He pleases me, and he says I do the same for him. It is the other man; he's the one I was thinking of when I asked the question. By the way, I know I am messing up, I just can't seem to stop.

Hey there. Thanks Howard. I have read a few of your posts, and consider you to know a few things. When I asked could he tell, of course he and I have talked about some of the past. He has had two failed marriages, so it's no big deal. What I am wondering, is it true about...let's see how to put this...if it can get worn out(for lack of a better way to put it). Let's say you were dating a new woman, and you were having sex, could you tell that she has had lots of sex before, be it even twenty years ago?

I am a 34 year old female, married for 13 years. I have had two children. In my teenage years, I had MULTIPLE sexual partners from the age of 13 to 21,; with the males ranging in ages of 17 to 24. (a rape changed my life, and I became sexually active) Through the years, I have done kegel exercises. My question is this: Could my husband know that I have had multiple sexual encounters? I have always worried about this.