Hi i'm new to the forum.. I just wanted to ask some questions... For one i've been with my boyfriend for 6 years on and off, we're long distance now.. so i try to go out there every month or every other month for 2 weeks or so.. He never comes here... (which is also a problem?... i fee like its all one sided).. and when i am there, it's like i'm not!! he'll go sit and play on his computer, leave me in this room to watch tv.. like i can't do the same exact thing at home? When it comes to the sex part.... it's just like me laying on his stomach and then starting to give him head, then havting to ask if i can have it? And when it comes to sex unless he gives me oral sex i don't orgasm, i can't get off by him having sex with me.. just doesnt work.. i mean im 20 and hes 23, this shouldnt be happening!! like the night i get in from the airport he wants me.. but any other night after that, nope. Nothing! He never wants sex!! and that either means he's sleeping with someone else, or i've turned into the ugliest woman alive? what man at 23 doesnt want sex? I'm a scorpio.. i love sex, it's one of the better things that i do. He's a capricorn.. he likes to do it behind closed doors. I'd settle for him to want it at all!! what do i do? i'm not satisfied.. i'm not happy.. please help me.