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  1. OK, so, as many of you may know, I'm also a moderator here. There were SEVERAL reports on this post.....not because of the pic (which I find unique & beautiful, btw), but because of the rude, and hateful comments that followed.

    I have deleted all of the rude, insensitive comments, and, if you had responded with using any of the said rude comments, I deleted that as well, so as not to reference any hate here. 

    Please remember, we are all unique ADULTS. This is suppose to be a safe spot for ANYONE to post things, so long as they are over the age of 18. If something isn't for you, just move on. There is no need to respond hatefully. You can get banned from here if too many reports on you specifically are made. And, we don't want that to happen, so please just be respectful when responding.

    And, please remember, if you DO report something, please insert the reason WHY you reported it. The ones that did on this one, did so, and it was very helpful, and I appreciate all of ya'll's concerns!! Thank you for standing up for your fellow Member here on TT!!!

  2. Each person's preference is different. Some people like having a bullet to tease them first, then having a dildo go in, some people love having the dildo in while using a bullet on the clit, some like it with the bullet on the clit, and thrusting the dildo in and out.

    It all depends on YOUR preference. The only way you would ever do it "wrong" is if you had pain using them. So, it really does go to personal preferences. The fun part is learning, experimenting, and trying different ways to do it. Even different positions can give you different sensations.

  3. On ‎5‎/‎6‎/‎2020 at 12:39 PM, RJApainting said:

    I'm in NYC total shutdown stay at home.  Not too bored, I have a patio deck to sit  have coffee or a beer. I come here every now and then to see what's up.  I'm doing ok.

    How's that going? What are your guidelines? What are the consequences if violated, and are they actually doing so?

    I live near Houston, and our county is under a "wear a mask" order, where, you can get fined if you're not wearing one in public.....however, I have yet to hear about them enforcing this, or seeing any place of business actually enforcing it....heaven forbid that they offend anyone!!! 

    The government has allowed some types of businesses to reopen, like hair salons this last Friday. We did notice that people were driving stupidly once again, and I'm truly hoping that the positive cases don't start to rise.....I'm not hopeful, but I hope this isn't doing more harm than good.

      

  4. On ‎4‎/‎12‎/‎2020 at 9:07 PM, square said:

    I'm in a cooler area of a hot state.  We know or know of four folk (friends of friends or family of friends, that sort of thing) who have died and another two or three in critical, over the course of a few weeks.  

    I am fortunate I am able to work from home.  Have been keeping distance from others, inside the house as well as out if we go out, washing hands more, etc.  Mostly I have been staying home.

     

     

    Stay safe hon!!!!

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  5. 10 hours ago, HuntersvilleNC said:

    No cheating so no guilt! When I was married, the minute she started playing games and using sex as a tool, I divorced her ass.....that was 9 years ago. I learnt a single lesson : Never get married! I'm content with dating and having a partner I can be adventurous with, without the nonsensical expectations that comes with marriage.

    I remember after my divorce, many of my friends (make and female) who seemed very happy confidentially confiding in me about how they "wished" they could leave if children, money etc weren't involved. Many of them are still miserably married. not the kind of life I choose to live.

    If you have to cheat......it's already broken, and if you think he/she doesn't know you're living on a different planet. They're just not ready to deal with it...yet.

    Well said!!!

    And, if they DON'T know yet, they will!!! The longer you cheat, the greater the chance of you being caught.

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  6. Just like penises, clit sizes  can vary. They don't normally get big, like a small penis, but they can vary in some shape and size, but not as truly noticeable as different penis sizes.

    Yes, they get hard. Think about it, it would have developed into a penis if the male gene was present. So, that's why it's so sensitive. I read somewhere that there are about 8000 nerves in the clit.

    Just like there are differences on how men like to have their cocks handled, it goes for women too. Different women like their clits touched a special way. Many will agree that direct contact to their clit can be painful, since it's so sensitive.

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  7. On 3/30/2020 at 8:05 AM, HuntersvilleNC said:

    Did you have a good weekend?

    Did you get laid?

    Did you watch porn?

    Did you unload some energy?

    Is your week looking productive?

    Actually, yes.

    Not until this morning.

    No.

    Yes. We were working on a room that needs remodeling.

    I hope so. I'm shopping for tires, and going to work on that room some more.

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  8. Whatever you decide to do, I hope that you are happy with it, and you get some satisfaction!!! There's nothing worse than having a selfish lover, a person that doesn't seem to care, or just doesn't show any interest. I'm sorry that anyone is experiencing that. I've been there.

    Much love!!

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  9. On 3/3/2020 at 10:47 AM, RideDaTrain123 said:

    My wife is 32 and has almost no sex drive anymore due to medications. She was recently diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer that is hormone based, good thing is she is not having to go through the harsh chemo treatments. But they have had to put her into early menopause and put her on hormone blockers along with a low dose oral chemo. So far it has been working which is wonderful.

    But I know that the lack of sex drive has been killing us both. I'm hoping that when her body levels off and starts to get used to the new hormone levels she will get some of it back. But until then I guess I'll take what I can get and take care of myself the rest of the time.

    This type of lack of sex drive is totally understandable, and I applaud you for being understanding and allowing her time to heal. 

    Sickness, medications, and having to deal with hormonal changes can't be helped. However, in cases of things like hormonal changes, menopause, and medications, there are things that can be done to help. The first thing is to talk to your doctor (the one suffering from the issue). Diet, exercise, and possible medication changes or hormonal replacements can be helpful. Changes like that will take time. It's not like these things come on suddenly, so, it will take time, effort, balances, and patience, to get things back in the swing of things. 

    Again, the first big thing: talk to your doctor!!!!

    In the sickness aspect, you can try to see if your partner is willing to pleasure you, if they have the energy to do so, but don't push it. You'd want them to be patient with you, and in that case, it's not time to be selfish at all.

    21 hours ago, M1959P said:

    Why would someone put a dick pic on this thread..jeez

    I TOTALLY agree with this!!!

    Though we are a sex forum site, I'm getting soooooo tired of seeing dick pics in topics that have NOTHING to do with requesting a pic. That goes for any genital pic in non-requested topic areas. People, don't put pics in where it's not asked for!!! Gawd…...

     

    On 3/18/2020 at 11:12 PM, horny farm gal said:

    I can definitely identify.  My husband is on HBP meds and other that has killed his drive.  before we used to have a very active sex life.  I also was having  serious issues due to menopausal hormone changes.  I sought treatment options for the last several years - bioidentical hormones etc.  Now I am on a regimen that works.  I feel great!  I have tried to get him to do it as well, and also to stop eating shit for food and get healthy.  I have tried for years, I give up as he just doesn't want to try.  I am also frustrated that he doesn't give a shit about meeting my sexual needs after me years of accommodating his even when I wan's really in the mood.   I would first suggest for you to see if your husband is willing to give you the satisfaction you need through touch, massage, kissing, even playing with you with your toys.  If not - and I know I will get blasted for this - get a lover that he will never know about.

    There is a point where you can only do so much. If someone doesn't want to change, or refuses to even try, it's impossible to feel any sort of motivation FOR them.  Some people are so selfish, and they don't see what they are doing, only what they have done to them. It would really depend on if you want to stay with them or not. 

    As far as a lover on the side goes, that would be totally up to you really. Depends on if you can do so. Not sure if your husband would be willing to have an open marriage for you to see someone else, or not, or if it would be on the DL. Either way, that's a choice only you can make.

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  10. Square has a point. 

    Divorce can ruin someone financially.

    However, if the separation is BEFORE any cheating goes, there will probably be less hurt feelings, especially if there's no more sex for whatever reason, people have grown distant, and the couple is just done.

    If you, as a couple, have been together a long time, and each of you has earned your share of the assets, then, it's only fair that things are split. 

    If you cheat, and the other finds out, the, things can be a lot worse, and people can tend to try and get back at the one that betrayed them, and sometimes get more due to the hurt.

    I had a BF in high school, where the parents had stayed together just so the kids could have a 2 parent household, until they graduated from high school. My BF was the last one, and he had even told them they should just divorce. They lived totally separate lives. Each had a significant other outside the marriage, and only discussed the kid's school issues, bills, and taxes. That was it. Everyone in the house was on hold. Even though they thought it was for a good reason, both my BF & his sister, thought it was wasting time.

  11. With all of the new viruses, new/old STDs, and understanding bodily fluids, SAFE SEX is MOST important!!! And, I love the fact that a MAN started this post!!! Men are JUST AS responsible for safe sex as women are.

    With the COVID-19 (NOT an STD) mutating, people being carriers with no symptoms, this is the case with some STDs as well.

    As someone WITH an STD, yes, me.....I have herpes. So does my GF. No we didn't give it to each other, so, I know of what I speak. You don't know to look at us that we have it. It's not like a certain smell, look, or mark, to know we have it. You won't even know when I'm having an outbreak unless I tell you. You just NEVER know. So, safe sex is very very very important.

    Also understand that, even when you practice safe sex, like I was when I got it, not everything is 100%. Condoms slip off (trust me)…….

    The biggest things I can recommend is, make sure you have correct fitting condoms (if you're a girl, and have the condoms, have a variety, men-be honest about your cock size). It can save a life, someone's fertility, well-being, self-esteem, and genital health.

  12. Glad you had some fun, and he had some fun experiences with the 3-some.

    Many men, especially from our Boomer to Gen Xers, are very sensitive about not discussing sex, or admitting that they like anal sex. Boys use to be teased about "OMG, you like it up the ass!!" So, that learned behavior of defending themselves, and proving  their manhood, is a very hard thing to stop.

    I've mentioned many times that my ex husband actually started enjoying anal sex. He knew I had joined here, and loved that I was a reviewer......after a time. At first, he was of the thinking that sex toys were replacements for him. I had to convince him that they're enhancements, not replacements. 

    Then, I got a very small glass butt plug. He loved seeing it inside of me, and how it felt when he was inside of me with the plug in too. The, it took about 2 years of playing with the toys on me, that he was getting interested in anal play.....for him.

    It was stages. I personally don't like having anal sex done to me. But, he learned that he did. And, he worked his way up to being able to have me peg him with a strap on. In the beginning stages, he kept saying that he didn't want me to think he was gay, or that his sexuality should be called into question. I had to reassure him several times that I didn't think he was gay, or that he didn't find me attractive anymore. So, ever so often, he'd take one of my dildos, and have some shower fun by himself. I honestly didn't mind because I knew he was doing it. Even when he thought I didn't (he wasn't very sneaky), I knew.

    Honestly, I'd do the finger in his ass suggestion, slowly. Maybe be a bit more energetic when giving him a blowjob, plug in some porn with anal play, and go at it!!! Let him watch the porn when you're down on him. He may just go with it. And, yes, make sure you have plenty of lube!!!

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  13. Well, the penis pumps that "won't break the bank" ARE hand operated, but, usually easy to use.  I'd recommend looking at the review section here on the forum. You can do a search in each subject, and type in "penis pump". See what reviews are there.

    Also, check out any of the ratings of them here on TT's shopping page. Some will rate them, but not come and do a review on the forum unfortunately. We need more male input when it comes to sex toys! 

    I'd recommend also, that you pick out the one YOU think you'd like!! After all, your junk is the one going in it!!! LOL :)

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  14. Do you live in an area that has a Stay At Home Order? Are you really worried about the COVID-19 virus? 

    Are you taking precautions?

    Are there a lot of cases of COVID-19 in your state, and immediate area?

    If you are staying at home, and practicing social distancing, how are you staying busy, active, and not getting cabin fever?

     

  15. I don't know if the article you read is quite accurate, however, the picture attached is quite hot!! I LOVE it!!!

    I personally think that cross-dressing is just something people like (like if you prefer a certain color). Or, that, if it's sexual, then it's considered a personal kink. A friend of mine, her hubby likes wearing women's underwear because of the material, and how it feels. One of my previous FWB's, he sometimes wears it because he feels like he has a sexy secret......even from his wife. He had started doing so years ago, and, the last time we were together, I got to take his bra off, and play with him under some satin panties. Not gonna lie......it was HOT!!!

    In any event, whatever makes people  happy, so long as it's safe, legal, and between consenting adults, there is nothing wrong with it!

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  16. I completely shave everything off. I have since I was about 23 years old, so, in part, it's a bit of a habit. It can be tedious, and a pain in the ass sometimes, but I truly prefer it.

    I do remember, at first, it was a hard time getting everything shaved. Then, it's finding the right razor for your body hair type. 

    Every person I've been with since I started shaving, LOVES that I'm "smooth" down there. That's my personal preference. However, when it comes to my partners, I've had both shaved, and unshaved.  I prefer either trimmed, or shaved. 

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  17. It's always sad when people leave. Whether it's because they decided to find other interests, loose interest, get mad, or whatever, I always find it sad. I've slacked off here and there on the forum. However, I don't think I could ever leave........

    For whatever the reason people leave, I always miss their particular ways of posting.

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  18. On 3/30/2020 at 8:05 AM, HuntersvilleNC said:

    Did you have a good weekend?

    Did you get laid?

    Did you watch porn?

    Did you unload some energy?

    Is your week looking productive?

    Yes.

    No, but I made love to my GF.

    Nope.

    Yes, but getting some stuff done around the house.

    So far, it's been decent......

    You?

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