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  1. So, how often do you think about sex, percentages would be ok.

    Honestly, when I'm working, since I work at a school, I don't think about it much during the days I'm working. On the weekends, especially when my daughter's with her father, well, it's almost non-stop!! LOL

    During work days: 10% maybe.

    Weekends without my daughter at home 90-95%

    Weekends with my daughter at home 50-60%

    After work 60%

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  2. On 7/25/2016 at 7:09 PM, Kinkster said:

    Same for us. One of us always "wins", and the other goes after it!

    Doesn't stop us from trying though!

    Just keep swimming, just keep swimming!! LOL ;)

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  3. If he didn't tell you about it, you're suppose to be exclusive/living together, and/or he'd be pissed if you did it, then yes, in my opinion, he is cheating. My first husband flirted online terribly, and yet told me that if *I* flirted online, he thought of that as cheating.

    He'd also downloaded pics of local women, in various states of dress/undress, and saved them. Never telling me about any of it. I found it. At first he said it was just flirting and pics, but I couldn't trust him at all.

    So, yes, I'd say it's cheating.

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  4. Hi, Intensely!

    Mrs.BettyCrocker made some great suggestions.

    Please know that you're not alone. It's said that from 82-85% of women need clit stimulation to get off. So, that means it's a low amount that gets off from just vaginal penetration.

    The other suggestion I will make is that you not just pick one or the other area to stimulate. If you want to have your va-jay-jay to orgasm, you may need to be stimulating both your clit, and inside. Rabbit vibrators are great for that. Or even a combo of something as simple as your favorite clit stimulator and a dildo inside of you would work (it does for me!!!).

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  5. I also have a bit collection of Dreamworks and Disney DVDs as well, thanks to my daughter (gotta have an excuse, right?). I have made it a goal to get a lot of my favorites from my childhood, like Labyrinth, Dark Crystal, Goonies, The Last Unicorn, Riki Tiki Tavi, Legend, Dirty Dancing, etc. Yes, I have all of those, and yes, I've shared them with my daughter and she loves them too!! :)

    Every so often, I find one I'd forgotten about. I'm really wanting to get Light Of Day, but Amazon only has one that ships from Germany, so I'm not even sure if it's real or not, or even in English.

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  6. I'll admit, it is hard for me to concentrate when I'm in a 69 position with my girlfriend. I prefer to be on the bottom. When I was with a man, it was a little easier because having something large in your mouth and sucking/licking with it in there already is a bit easier. LOL

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  7. satisfyer-pro-2-4_thumbnail.jpg

    Wow.....just wow........

    The Satisfyer Pro 2 is a rechargable clit stimulator. When I got this item, I was immediately impressed. I know that people usually say "Never Judge A Book By Its Cover", but the packaging of this toy is very classy, black, striped, and has a picture of the toy on it, but just the toy. It's not a sexual packaging, and, if you didn't know exactly what it was, you may not think it was a sex toy, making it a very good gift giver. Opening up the box, the toy is nestled in a plastic bed. In the box, there's the Satisfyer, USB cord, and the instructional booklet that's in several languages. I was very impressed.

    The USB cord plugs into any unit that has a USB port, including most cell phone charger plugs, or your computer/laptop. The end that goes on the toy is a big circle, and the 2 metal nubbies that attach to the toy join to the toy magnetically, so there's no worries about it coming off easily and not charging fully or correctly. I loved that feature! The last rechargable toy I got, I had to move, prop, and keep checking to see if it was charging, then readjust because the connection wasn't properly on. That is NOT a concern with this toy at all!!! When the toy is charging, there's a red indicator light in the middle of it, and it blinks when it's charging. The light stays on solidly once it's fully charged. The booklet said it can take up to 8 hours to charge, so I left it on for 8 hours to be on the safe side. There was a slight charge to it already, but always fully charge any rechargable toy to ensure that you get its fullest power for playing.

    The toy itself is impressive. Made out of a hard plastic (ABS) and it's a beautiful goldish-bronze color. It's shaped very similarly as an ear thermometer they use at the doctor's office, just a bit bigger.  The whole toy is sealed, so it's waterproof. The tip of the toy, where all the magic will happen from, is made from medical grade silicone. It's not like what you may normally expect from a clit stimulator, where it would be at a point of some sort. Oh no!! This baby is a bit tapered at the end, however, it's almost like a set of lips with an open O at the end. At first, I was like, what is this? I read in the booklet that it has some slight suction. So, I turned it on, and tried it on my arm. The vibes were nice (more on that in a bit), but I was interested int he suction part, so after I left it on my arm for about 5 seconds, I took it off, and there was a red mark where the open O had been. It disappeared quickly, so no, no hickey, but still, there was noticeable suction! The booklet suggested a drop of lube (they even recommended a brand and put the link to that brand in it) on the silicone part to allow for a better suction.

    There are only 2 buttons to play with on this toy. The bottom one turns the toy on/off. To turn it on, simply press it. The red light in the middle goes on, and stays on when it's on. Turning it off, just press that bottom button down for about 2/3 seconds. Light goes off. The top button changes the vibe strengths. It says it has 11 cycles, I counted more like 8 definite changes in the vibes, though very gentle changes. When I pressed the button all the way up to the top cycle, I was a bit worried because I love STRONG vibes, and this toy felt like it had low to medium vibes. It was a very quiet toy on low and highest settings. But, I'm willing to try anything for the clit at least once.

    I couldn't wait for night to come to try out my new toy, and, let me tell ya, that concern of the vibes not being strong enough.......a waste of time!!!  By the time I got to the toy, the light in the middle of the toy wasn't blinking anymore, so we had a full charge! Turning it on to the highest setting, and started rubbing all over my labia first, which was already wet with anticipation. Moving the hood over my clit, I put the toy over it, surrounding my clit with the toy. Oh. My. Gawd!! Between the vibes and the suction, my toes were curling in just a matter of a few minutes! It was a very intense clit orgasm!

    This toy is for any gal looking for a great clitoral orgasm! Experienced toy users, or newbies will definitely benefit from this toy! Easy to use, easy to clean, very simple to use, and non-intimidating, I HIGHLY recommend this toy! Even if you've never tried a clit stimulator before, you really should try this beauty!

    Satisfyer Pro 2-Be SATISFIED

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  8. I don't understand the response of never having the opportunity to give a blow job either. I've never known a man to refuse one, though, I'm sure there are times it's happened........

    I never did try this. My ex was very well-endowed, and I think I would've gagged if I had tried this. I couldn't get his whole shaft in my mouth.

  9. If one of the spouses has an affair, is it possible to get over it, move past it, and have a happy marriage?

    Do you think that you could forgive and move on? Or do you think that knowledge would just eat away at you, your trust, feelings for your spouse, and become a toxic issue in the marriage?

    I'd be interested to hear from everyone. Those have experienced affairs in their marriages (or long term relationships), and those that haven't.

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  10. Sorry about that. I got you confused with another poster. My bad.

    It's good that you can take ownership of part of the responsibility of the issue. I hope he does the same so that the issue can be resolved. :)

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  11. I kinda miss online chatrooms. Some of them were really interesting and fun. I never did go into the ones for dating though.

    I know of 3 couples, not including mine, that have met online and are married. These people were honest and true to their profiles though, and didn't play the b.s. games.

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  12. It makes perfect sense.

    And, you're right, GirlCrush, if you have just gone with it, and not said anything, probably for the entire relationship. I remember you said that this relationship is only a year old. This is too new of a relationship to be experiencing this. Though, I can understand because many women around your age and older (and even some younger ones as well, especially here in the south) think that going with the man's opinions, wants, desires, thoughts and opinions is the way to go. They're The Man, and many think they should be subservient to them.

    You may be one of those women that will do anything to keep the peace, or go with the flow, not saying anything, to keep your man happy.

    Not sure if that's the way it is with you or not. If it is, you are doing yourself and your relationship a major disservice. Having a great relationship DOES have some give and take, compromises, and sometimes doing something that you may not overly like. But that has to be on BOTH sides. As well as communication......not talking AT them, but having an interactive communication. Even of the sexual nature.

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  13. My GF LOVES to please me first. She loves my reactions and making me cum first. She's a pleaser anyway, and it also helps get her turned on more to do so, so it's a double positive for her. There are times that I am able to start the moves on her first, and get her to cum, but, usually, she likes me to feel like a lady first! I never make her feel like she's just pleasing me, and I don't feel like it's all about her either. It's mutual pleasuring! That's the way it should be, no matter how what kind of relationship (man on man, girl on girl, man on woman, whatever) you have.

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  14. So, I just saw yet another presidential candidate commercial on tv. This person is only showing the bad stuff about the other. How is that promoting your platform? I know that the last 3 or 4 decades, this has become the "norm", but how, as a society, have we allowed this to be ok? What happened to stating your platforms, and having the facts speak for themselves? IMHO, this election, as with the last 4 or so, will be a choice between the lesser of 2 evils........ugh.

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