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I agree with Mrs.BettyCrocker. The sudden loss of being able to achieve orgasm may be more of a medical issue, not a sexual issue. Is your wife on any sort of medications that are new to her? Some prescriptions do kill the sex drive, and that can contribute to the loss of desire/ability to achieve orgasm.
Good luck! And, yes, the fun is in the experimenting!!!
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Strap on harnesses can be a lot of fun, whether it's for a female or a male, these things can add a lot of fun and adventure in the bedroom for either gender. There are a lot of varieties are out there, so how do you choose?
Strap on harnesses can be a tricky thing to order, especially if you're a bit more of a curvy girl. When something says that "fits most", it's very fine line for different manufacturers. But, in the interest of honest reviews, we tried this new find, Pink's B.O.B. Strap-On Harness.
This particular harness only comes with 4 different sized O-rings and the harness. The 4 O rings which vary from 1.25"-2" in diameters, for a nice variety to use with your toys. It also has a small elastic sleeve approximately 2" wide in the back of the front panel of the harness for a small bullet (not included) for the wearer to insert in for some added pleasure. This harness can handle hips up to 60", and has 4 straps that are fully adjustable to fit small or larger people. The straps fit through plastic buckles to adjust to larger or small hip sizes. The one other feature we loved was the back panel that helps stabilize the harness for more control. Both the front and back panels are padded for that extra comfort, which is VERY important with strap on harnesses. I will say that the straps are NOT padded like one of the descriptions on a picture say. They're just nylon. Not bad, or uncomfortable, but NOT padded.
The harness was easy to put on, and adjust. However the placement of the vibe pocket was a bit too high for optimum vibe pleasure for the wearer, but would add a nice vibe to the dildo for the receiver. Because of the panels, front and back, were good size, there was a lot more control and comfort for the wearer. The inside of the panels are a neoprene-type material, which helps absorb moisture, usually allowing the skin to breathe. The front of the panels are like a vinyl, so the breathable factor really isn't there, and the wearer may sweat under it a bit.
We used one of my favorite dildos with this toy. We needed the 2" O ring, and changing that out was as simple as unsnapping and res-napping the 4 straps that hold it on to the harness, then sliding the dildo in the O ring. The dildo stayed in place, didn't slip or fall out, and was easy to control with the harness.
We did have a lot of fun with this harness. Well, it was fun for me, which I was the receiver this time. But, because the vibe pocket was a bit high, the wearer didn't get as much pleasure for herself than we would've liked. She didn't chafe or have the straps cut into her, so she liked that part.
This would be a great first time user or an advanced user. It's ease and versatility are sure to please, and give pleasure! I give this harness a 3.5 out of 4 Tyger Paw rating.
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Hi Cheesehead.
What she's experiencing is normal, and has NO bearing on your performance. It happens to many women, even those before menopause, especially if they're on medications for depression, had a baby, or have had some traumatic experience in their lives.
Lubes do come in a variety of flavors. I'd recommend a natural based one for you (and her), since a high sugar content can cause yeast infections. But, the fun is exploring all of the options!!!
I think it's ludicrous that insurances have stopped paying for ED helping medications. They say that the marriage state is one of the most important, and that the divorce rate and infidelity rate is too high, well, hey, help a guy out then!! Jeez!!!!
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Welcome back!
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Tantus is one of the premium silicone sex toy makers, and this one is another fine example of the quality of the items that they make for adult fun.
Let me introduce you to Mikey O2, or as I am going to refer to him, Stubby Mikey. He's a very nice gentleman. He arrived in a very nice box that protecting him in his travels. He's not very tall, but he will fill you up with his almost 6" length, and almost 2" in diameter. Because he's so agreeable, he'll go where ever you want him. He's very clean, because he's made out of 100% smooth silicone, with a nice cocoa color tone to him, making him look and feel almost real. You can even see his "scar" from his "circumcision" under his very shiny head. And is a lot of fun either alone, with a friend, or even in a harness since he has a nice wide base to hang on to or strap in.
Again, let me remind you to always use water-based lubes with silicone toys. Trust me on this one!!
We used Stubby Mikey in our strap-on harness for a night of fun. I liked him so much, I put a ring on it.......a harness ring that is! Stubby Mikey was very accommodating, not arguing with me about where he was going, and accepting the harness ring, even though it was a tight fit (which is actually what you want with a toy and harness ring to help maintain control of the toy, and avoiding slippage).
After getting more excited, Stubby Mikey decided he wanted inside of me, going in very smooth, and, well, wow, yes, he filled me up very nicely. A pleaser, Stubby Mikey gave it all he got, and satisfied my needing to be filled up! I usually like my toys a bit longer, but, with Stubby Mikey's girth, he made up for his stoutness. Firm, not floppy, Stubby Mikey took direction well, and stayed true to form, never bending or quitting.
Because he's made of silicone, he's classy and easy to clean up. I will be allowing Stubby Mikey to rest in his original box, to help keep his form in tip-top shape.
Some people may be put off of his realistic look, and this is a decently wide toy, so be warned this may not be for beginner toy users.
I give this toy a rating of 4 out of 4 Tyger Paws.
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I'm glad that others are coming back around. I love to see old screen names popping back up and hopefully bringing new spark to the forums!
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Welcome back Admiral! I've missed seeing your posts! We definitely need more male perspectives on this sort of thing!!! I'm sorry that some things didn't work out the way you had hoped, but, at least you found stuff out before things got too deep (especially legal). There's no where to go but up (or, since you like anal, up the butt!! LOL). All in good humor!!!
Looking forward to reading some more of your posts.
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Frank, I have tried POF. Friends of mine met on there, so I thought I'd give it a try. More and more people are on there, and making it more and more difficult to weed out the good ones. That's the site where I had 2 married men start up conversations, and then i'd get messaged by their wives! One guy had me go on 3 dates, talk sweetly to me, then an hour later, confess that his ex had contacted him, and he was probably going to go back with her. OK!!! I went on a different one, made for my health issues, and, guess what? SUCCESS!!! I guess it all depends on the site, timing, and the phases of the moon! LMAO Glad it worked out for you.
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Thanks 12GAUGE. Welcome back!!!
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No, you're definitely NOT sick for this!!!! There's a huge difference between fantasy and real life. Fantasies, even when played out, are with a trusted lover, that you are comfortable with, attracted to, and wanting sexually. The whole taboo with sex/masturbation, especially growing up, can be harmful to one's sexuality in the future.
Think of it this way: aren't some of the most happiest couples more sexually active, adventurous, and flirty with each other?
Getting excited out of porn is more of a closeted guilty pleasure. Again, it's a safe way to live some of your fantasies. You're really NOT sick.
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With online world has opened up a whole new way of flirting, meeting people, and relationships. It's a somewhat safe way of flirting, and less personal in a big way.
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I had 3 friends offer to set me up. I've only taken up one person (the first one actually) on it. Yeah, didn't go well.
Though friends have good intentions, even though they're friends with the person that they're trying to set you up with, they don't truly know that friend and how they are with a romantic interest. Friends and SO's are a bit different dynamic.
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It was, quite literally, my pleasure!!!
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I've recently added 2 new tattoos to my body's collection, and the second one is just on the top of my left breast. I will say that getting tattooed gets me a bit hot. Does this happen to anyone else as well?
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Funny poem!! LOL
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On 3/16/2016 at 7:08 AM, Kama said:
I would like to share a part of my life that I can't wrap my head around.
In 2012, I had naively worked with a life coach that claimed to have all of the answers to love and relationships. She knew that I had a trauma history and "different" sexual preferences (preferring oral over PIV). She thought finding a casual lover to help fix me would make my body open up more, and help prepare me for marriage. I was desperate to be normal and like everyone else, so I did it.
It didn't work at all. If anything, it made things worse. The man was sloppy at foreplay, too large and would get angry at me. I think I bruised his ego by not having an orgasm and not being able to take him in during penetration.,I was just left feeling crappy. Having him be abrasive and critical made me shut down. I would even spend money on arousal pills, but they made me throw up.
I put up with him, because my coach kept telling me, "you were sexually abused. You need this! Just let go. It's you and not him." I had tried to explain to her that I need a lot of warming up, trust and comfort. She didn't understand. Both of them didn't understand why I was the way I was.
I had finally tossed this man to the curb when he told me I was a mess sexually. I had walked away from the coach, because she ended up being unkind.
Looking back, I am realizing that I didn't really want to be in that situation. It was the coach that kept saying that this would help "sexually heal" me. Was this normal for her to do that? I have never heard of any professional doing that.
The good news is that at least I have had sex partners after this man that were a lot nicer and understanding.
I think that that life coach you had should have any license that she has revoked!!! No life coach would encourage someone that had been sexually and/or emotionally abused to stay in any sort of abusive relationship. And and sort of guidance of "Just let go, it's you not him" is NOT ever acceptable in that kind of situation IMHO. And I don't see how any of that helped heal you sexually.
Diving in and having a relationship, just for the sake of having one to try and move past any sort of past issue or abuse is NOT the way to do it, and that woman is a shithead for it!!
OK, done with the rant, now to get to the topic. Telling someone that you may just have the Friends With Benefits relationship to more of a "I really want a true relationship with you" is a tricky thing. I've had 3 of the FWB things. All knowingly and willingly going into it as FWB's. The first one was the most complex, in that he and I were friends for 14 yrs prior. I was starting to fall in love with him, and I knew it. He never said anything to the kind of wanting anything more than the situation we were in, so I started dating. I was the one to make the step to remove myself from that. Never once did we ever agree that we were exclusive as far as seeing other people. Sleeping with others was an understood no-no though. I never did tell him of my feelings because I've known him too long, and I knew that a relationship between the 2 of us would never work out in the end. It was a very bad recipe for disaster, and I think we both actually know that.
The last 2 I've had, I went in telling them I wasn't looking for anything serious, not to expect anything else, and don't bug me with texts or calls.
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So, my area is on Spring Break. Which means a lot of kids and young adults out and about. I was wondering if anyone else is on Spring Break, if you have any plans, and if you can share with us your most fun or favorite Spring Break adventures (sexual or not).
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loL Not QUITE a sex TOY Regular Guy, but i get it!!
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Now that I'm a bit older, and a bit wiser, I think that being true to one self is a bit easier at my age.
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I think it's great when couples are on here and are active on here together. I think it opens up more sexual fun communications.
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I think you're confused as to the subject of THIS particular website. It's not a dating site, or "help me find someone" website. If you're looking for something like that, I'd suggest Tinder or POF (Plenty Of Fish).
This website is for mature adults that love sex, and love discussing sex, toy usage, and that sort of thing. NOT a hook up site. However, feel free to peruse the site and comment on things that interest you.
Best wishes.
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Fantastic review!! Please let me add that, with this type of material, use only water-based lubricants. Silicone lubes would probably "melt" the material. Yes, it really does break down the material, and it "melts". I love your review. I agree, we need more reviews from a male point of view!
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Thank you. I agree. I think everyone is drawn to one thing, and has their own "hobbies/collections". However, there's a line between those and being addicted to it.
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I just LOVE Tantus products! I have several, and this toy, the Tsunami Silicone Dildo meets their high standards and my high expectations.
Silicone is a GREAT toy material! It's antibacterial, smooth, easy to care for, and a great pleasure investment.
This toy is great!! It's made from 100% Ultra Premium grade Silicone. It has the base big enough to be strap-on harness compatible, It comes with a single speed (which is HIGH. by the way) plastic silver bullet -batteries included-which can be inserted into the hole in the base of the dildo, or use it on your clit separately.
At almost 8" long, and almost 2" wide, this purple pleasure tool is gently ridged, to look like waves, which is a wonderful stimulating feature. You can insert about 7" or so, and it allows one to have a full feeling, without being painful. It's so smooth, that it goes in easily, and feels great. I loved how it felt when I was thrusting it in and out of me. I had inserted the bullet in the base after I used it on my clit for a while, to get myself ready to ride the waves! I could feel the vibes very well even with it in the toy, which was, oh so nice! The storm inside built up, until I finally came crashing down to the earth, The aftermath was one very satisfied Tyger, trying to recoup from a very powerful, self-inflicted storm!
I give this toy a stormy 4 out of 4 Tyger Paw rating, PLUS a loud purr!!!!
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Glad this toy worked so well for you. It sounds awesome! How loud would you say it is?
Please add the link to this item so it's really easy for people to find for easier shopping! Thanks!