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No, more like taking care of kids that he thinks are biologically his, but really aren't. The key word is unwittingly.
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This is my first Jopen Key toy. I always love getting new toys from companies I haven't tried out yet, and with this little cutie being USB chargable (no batteries to install!!), cord included, being silicone, and a beautiful baby blue color, I couldn't wait to charge this up and get started! I also liked that it is waterproof AND comes with a nice little black drawstring bag to store it all in as well.
I loved the box it comes in. Very private, sturdy, and descriptive, I had no troubles getting into it. It says that it fully charges in 2 hours. I plugged in one end into my laptop, and the other end, which has 2 prongs that go to the 2 metal circles on the toy, which was a bit tricky, since I was actually ON my laptop, which was, well, on my lap, the toy's connection was not that great. There's a light on the toy that goes on (red) when it's charging, so I knew if it was being charged or not.
There's 5 settings that is controlled by the simple one silver button on part of the top that goes around part of the finger. The flat "base" stimulation plate has slight raised wave looking patterns on it for added stimulation. I was impressed with the strongest steady vibe setting, and couldn't wait to use it later that night on my girlfriend. The only issue that I have with this toy, is that the 2 curved prongs that wrap mostly around your finger is a bit big. Even for my middle finger. I don't have small or large fingers for a woman, they're more like a medium size, but it's like it's designed more for male fingers really.
Settling in, me and my girlfriend started playing. She likes a strong vibe too, and loved how it felt on her skin, nipples, and body. However, when we got down to the clit, after several repositionings, and trying the other settings, this toy left her wanting. Yes, it was great as a teaser. And, she orgasms better with more of direct clit stimulation, so this toy fell short of delivering the big bang for her. We then tried it on me for a while. Again, it felt great everywhere else, but, alas, this was not the Key I was looking for. I wasn't able to get a more direct stimulation on my clit. It did stimulate my labia, and surrounding areas of my clit, but the waves didn't even help. Then, with both of us, we had to hold on to the finger massager with another finger, coupled with the soft and smooth silicone, it was slick, which made maneuvering a bit more difficult.
Sad to say,that I have to give this toy a 1 out of 4 Tyger Paw rating, for innovation alone. It's rare that I give such a low rating, however, it wasn't up to my standards mostly because of the way it didn't hold on to my fingers, and the difficulty I had with charging it. It's definitely not a toy for beginners due to the frustration level I experienced with it.
http://www.tootimid.com/Pyxis-Silicone-Rechargeable-Finger-Massager-8350.html
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On 4/4/2014 at 0:17 PM, cwgrltinkerbell21 said:
I'll step up...
:::::whew:::::
Intimacy with the hubs, just flat out sucks. He has ED and will not admit it, talk about it, or address there's a problem. He says it's because I'm so tight. Well, ok. That's fine, but c'mon now, 75% of the time, he's not even fully inside of me and he comes. I love him so much and more than anything but my reasons are flatly that I NEED things, and there has only been ONE person I have EVER done those with. So... It's purely physical for me. Never emotional.
::: whew ::: still nervous, but feel a little better...
Sounds like he's making excuses. Men can train their bodies to hold back their orgasm for a little while. If they practice, they can actually hold off their orgasms for a while.
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On 12/26/2014 at 7:54 PM, RC4BLUE said:
Tyger has a wonderful voice. She is a wise woman. I too like this community and the kind words from all.
Thank you.
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On 1/5/2016 at 8:55 PM, WenWitch said:
We had sex education in school but it left me with a lot of unanswer questions. We learned about the basics. This is a woman. The woman has a vagina. This is a man. The man has a penis. This is an egg that comes from the woman's ovaries. This is a sperm. etc. The whole teaching was robotic and matterfactly. Followed up with a direct warning to use condoms to protect yourselves from receiving the aids virus should you become sexually active. My parents refused to talk about sex or puberty or even prementstral syndrome. My mother yelled at me for having my first period. From then on it was "if you get pregnant, I'm kicking you out of the house". That was my sex education.
That's very sad that you lacked any sort of sex ed or sympathy from your mother. Well, at least you have us now!!
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There are things that she can use on you as well. If you're into anal, or would like to try it, you can start off with a small butt plug that helps stimulate your prostate while you thrust inside of her. Or you can put a cock ring on while you have the strap on on you. You could get a cock ring that vibrates if you want that added stimulation as well.
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So, cuckholding is a husband that is with an adulterous wife. In evolutionary biology, the term is also applied to males who are unwittingly investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own.
So, has any man on here stayed with his wife after she had an affair and found that the affair was beneficial?
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Glass toys aren't just pretty, they come in all sorts of shapes, sizes, styles, colors, and for different parts of the body. They're sturdy, being made of the same kind of glass as popular glass cookware, and is extremely easy to clean. You can boil them if you have a fear of germs, though, washing with warm water and antibacterial soap pretty much does the same thing.
I love my Blue Swirl glass dildo. It's curved up juuuuuust right for the g-spot stimulation, and the head is bulbous enough to please me.
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Nobody else?
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This is an old, yet interesting topic.
To me, it sounds like Smile4Me's husband is very controlling, and doesn't care about her pleasure one bit. The controlling the 3-somes, not taking suggestions, and not caring if she's sexually happy, sounds like he just likes the idea of being married, and having a woman in the house. Yes, you can be best friends, and have a great friendship if you're married. You absolutely should. However, the sexual aspect is also very important.
I'd be interested to see if they're still together.
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This happens quite often. More so than most men probably would like to admit. For women, even after we orgasm, we are blessed with the ability to go on (most of the time), and keep performing.
Where I do understand that men cum hard, you're right Married, a man's focus should be on pleasing his woman, instead of just his pleasure/exhaustion.
I've been with men that make SURE I finish, then others that couldn't give a crap if I had orgasmed or not.
To me, it's very selfish to leave your lover hanging, man or woman.
Now, that's different then having a "it's all about my lover night" where you just concentrate on pleasing your lover only. Those are a lot of fun too!
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http://www.tootimid.com/we-vibe-4-plus-6594.html
Is this what you're looking for, or something like this?
We need a bit more information as to what y'all are looking for in a toy. Is it going to be something you both are wanting to use at the same time, something with just a remote?
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I agree. We've had many people that have been guests/lurkers, that have finally made the plunge into becoming members. As long as you're 18, we would love to see you sign up, sign in, and start posting. We always love to see new members, see new posts, questions, tips, tricks, and experiences. Cum one, cum all!
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So, we have one about signs about women that may be bad in bed, but how about men?
What have you found that points to a man being bad in bed?
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I was thinking that sometimes, it's hard to figure out where to post certain topics. Plus, since they're updating the site, I think that a Forum refresh/add on is a good thing? So, I'm going to message Rob with the link to this topic so he'll be sure to see it. I was wondering what your ideas for any new Forums may be?
So far, I have come up with:
*Safer Sex Circle (with sub forums for men and women, birth control, STDs, condoms, and how to make it fun without killing the mood). Of course there would be a disclaimer that this forum is NOT a replacement for professional medical care.
*In Love and Relationships Stuff-The Single Life
*In Love and Relationships Stuff-Bi-Life, Women Loving Women, Men Loving Men, and Other.(4 sub forums) With a descriptive message that everyone may not approve of such lifestyles, but respect is expected.
*Not sure where this one would go, but something for TooTimid Site Suggestions
*Have a new Forum about Sex in Politics and News with a notice that everyone has a right to their opinion, but please remain respectful.
*Sex Toys-Wish List-what do you want in a sex toy?
*A new forum called The Cafe-where people can just chat about whatever, and not clog up other topics with random chit-chat/flirting. With subforums like maybe: Holidays, Flirting, Socializing, Sex in TV, Movies, Books, Celebrities and Porn Stars
*In Love and Relationships: Age Is Nothing But A Matter of the Mind
*Erotic Massage, Meditation, and Deeper Connecting
*In Sex Positions and Techniques: Strap-It-On Fun, BDSM Equipment
Anyway, those are some of my ideas. What are yours? Message me if you can't respond to this. I'll add them to this list as I get them, with your names.
From Gadgetgeek:
I was thinking maybe we could have an area all about sex toys. Then individual areas under that for Men and Women. Something like Male Masturbators, Dildos, Vibrators, Cock Rings, ElectroSex, Anal Toys, etc. What do you think?
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I haven't tried the realm of online porn. I guess I'm too paranoid about what may pop up and flag me for something.
I enjoy adult DVDs. I LOVE Jenna Jameson. And I also like Tera Patrick too. Hotties! Though, as I get older, I really try and go for adult films with adults in it that actually LOOK like adults! LOL Maybe it's also because of my job, but watching barely 18ers go at it doesn't do anything but creep me out.
I mostly go for girl on girl stuff, some bondage, fantasy, and fetish.
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Where there is issues with porn, the same can be said of almost anything. Sweat shops, sex workers, even fashion models. There are always dark areas of many venues of entertainment.
However, that's really not what the article is about. Have I known people that are addicted to porn? Oh yes. I've also known (and know) people addicted to drugs, alcohol, energy drinks, junk food, and other unhealthy things. My ex husband was addicted to his XBox 360, totally ignoring me, and living in his world of online strategies and blowing things up. But, with all of these things, many of these things are ok, when done in moderation.
I am one of those women that enjoy watching adult films. I only like legal aged stuff, some fantasy, girl on girl, and some light bondage (no rape scenes). I like watching it as an addition to our sex life. Sometimes just the sounds of someone having sex turns us on. Do we need it to make love? NO. But it's fun.
I think that a lot of people that get addicted to porn may be getting their "high" from the fantasy and the lack of commitment of their orgasms via porn. The adrenaline rush they get from doing something taboo, and unconventional is more exciting than regular sex. Or, it fulfills some need that they're not getting in another part of their lives.
As far as porn goes, no, I don't think that it's a bad thing in general.
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Thank you very much. I'm glad you're enjoying them. I can't wait to read some of your reviews.
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WELCOME!!!! We love fresh meat......I mean NEW MEMBERS!!! LOL I hope you enjoy the forums. Please feel free to actively participate in as many of the topics, new AND older, as you feel comfortable with!!! New perspectives are always appreciated!!!
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You're absolutely correct!! A professional counselor should NEVER laugh at one of their patients. That's rude and unprofessional, no matter what the disclosure (unless y'all are cracking jokes, which I would be prone to do, even in a counseling session LOL).
Some people can't seem to understand how one's sexual preferences, likes, dislikes, etc, just because it's not theirs. It's sad, but it happens. You're absolutely correct!! Being accepted for what you like, and RESPECTED, especially with a lover. It's a definite plus! Congratulations on finding him!! He's a lucky fellah!
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On 11/6/2015 at 10:31 PM, Kama said:
Yeah, sex is about enjoying each other. This whole making "sex equal" is contrived, imo. I had a therapist that lectured me on this and thought that my giving nature would cause problems in my relationship, ha. I don't think so.
MY GF is EXTREMELY giving, in AND out of the bedroom, and not just with me (just not sexually). She tries to help people as much as she can. Now, there HAVE been times that she's wanted to stop and help someone on the side of the road, at night, and I had my daughter in the car. I had to tell her no, we can't do that, due to people that are dangerous, and I won't risk my daughter. They, most probably, have a cell phone, and they can call someone. I had to explain to her that we have to be more cautious, especially because of the risks, they're not worth it. However, since she's never had kids, she doesn't have that mindset.
Does this hurt our relationship? Hell no. We've talked about how this use to piss of her other GFs. I think that, if you're in a relationship with someone that is ALL about them, and not of a giving heart, then, yes, it can hurt.
Then, there's also the part that a lot of people take advantage of people that are giving, which may be what your counselor was trying to get you to think about when they said that it could hurt you. Because, eventually, many giving people get burned out (speaking from experience with myself), and feel used, and neglected, and stop giving as much.
So, on its face, no, being giving really shouldn't hurt a relationship. However, being the only giver can do so.
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Having had a similar set, I love how you can just leave it on the bed, tucked discreetly in until the next usage. Thanks for the detailed review!! Love it!
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Absolutely!
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I have no idea what some states, like the state I live in, with teaching "abstinence" only. In a large populated state like Texas, teaching the consequences of having sex, including oral sex, would be more important.
True, as a parent, it's our jobs to teach our kids, however, you have some parents, like my mother, that never think to talk to their kids about sex, or show their kids by example, that being free loving, uncaring, and getting knocked up with each man they're with to try and keep them, is ok.
Thankfully, I grew up in a state where they taught sex ed, and then you could go and have a couple of more semesters of it if you wanted. I also had common sense, and a mother that, by example, showed me that you don't need a man to be happy and have things.
Now a-days, kids don't have that. Common sense isn't so common, and people having a ton of kids is more normal than just one (I have just one, by choice). I never had a child that I wanted to try and hang on to a man with (and if you have to do that, that man isn't truly into you anyway, IMHO). My child was planned. There are ways, and I was thankfully educated, to prevent it, and learned how to tell a man that says "oh, c'mon baby, I'll pull out, or condoms are so uncomfortable for me" that unless he used a condom, there would be no nookie with me,and MEAN it.
I've seen parents, my age, with teenagers, that, when their teens get knocked up, or knock up some girl, treat it as a total blessing, with no consequences, and then they turn around and totally take care of their kids, and grandkids, plus the baby's other parent!!! WTF???
I do talk to my daughter about sex. She knows how it happens, and a lot of the terminology, age appropriate, of course. I'm working more on her self-esteem, and how to say no. I don't believe she's going to be one that gets guilted or "I'll like you more if...." type of girl. She seems pretty independent!
This is just a rant for me. Feel free to post your thoughts.
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Our Room Prepare Me Kit
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I love trying out bedroom kits. Whether it's a variety of lubes, a mix of items, or toy/lube kits, you gotta love the variety you get with them.
This is called Our Room Prepare Me Kit, and it really is all about preparedness. Created by Jo, their Limited Edition line, Volume IV, this 3 some is one you will want to incorporate into the bedroom for some romantic fun. Valentine's Day is coming up before I did this review, and this would be a great, sexy gift idea!
In this kit, you have 3 bottles. The first is a 1 fl oz. flip-top bottle of Kissable Massage Oil, Devilish Chocolate. Taking the seal off the inside of the bottle, I was greeted with a very strong and pleasant scent of a rich chocolate. Yummy! I did try a tad taste of it, since it says it tastes like a devilishly decadent chocolate cake. Where I did love the smell, the taste was not of cake, but more like the syrupy left-overs of a hot chocolate drink. Not bad, but I enjoyed the scent of the massage oil better. And it spread very nicely on my lover, and stayed slick. She loved how it felt on her skin, and, of course, we both love chocolate, so this was a win-win! The flip top bottle does squirt rather quickly, and a little goes a long way, so be careful.This massage oil is for EXTERNAL use only, so do NOT use this as a lube. Cleaning up was a bit challenging, and it may cause staining, which is also mentioned on the kit's box. I had read the box first, so I had laid a towel down first. Again, all about preparedness!
The first ingredient is Glycine Soja (Soybean) Oil. Be sure to check the total ingredient listing to make sure there's no allergy concerns.
Then there's a 1 fl. oz. flip-top bottle of H2O Flavored Lube which is the Pink Champagne flavor. Taking the seal off of that bottle, the scent was definitely that of champagne, which was pretty pleasant. And it did have a slight champagne taste (I'm not a big fan of champagne, but this was nice). The lube stayed nice and slick, and coupled with the chocolate scented massage oil on my lover's back, the complimented each other rather nicely. The first ingredient of this lube is Glycerine, so, again, check the total ingredient listing. This lube is condom safe, and around the genital area. Cleaning this up was pretty easy, and the lube is a clear liquid, so I don't think that it will stain anything. We didn't seem to get any anywhere other than on/in us, so if it did go anywhere, I didn't see stains, which is always a plus!!
Last, but not least, is the 1 fl. oz spray bottle of toy cleaner "refresh and revitalize". This isn't really scented in any specific scent, but it does smell clean. The press down spritz bottle sprays just enough cleaner. Then you simply wash off the cleaner, and your toys are nice and clean. I used this on a small silicone toy, in the place of soap. Though, as a creature of habit, I prefer the soap and water, this cleaner did help clean the toy nicely.
This kit comes in a small box, which is very tasteful, simple, and descriptive. It dares you to "Boldly enter and be prepared for what may behold you". It's perfect to give as a gift, or to pack in your bag for a weekend romantic getaway.
I give this kit 3 1/2 out of 4 Tyger Paws. This is a great way to Prepare Me!
Prepare Me Kit Volume IV