Tyger
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As we all know, first dates can be quite uncomfortable. What's your preferred first date venue? Is it a coffee shop, dinner, movie, picnic?
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When purchasing sex toys, do you prefer ones that look more realistic or not realistic?
And, do you prefer toys that feel more realistic, like a real cock or pussy?
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Would you want to change genders for just a short period of time (male or female). If so, why? Would it be to see what sex feels like for that gender, just to pee a different way, to see what life is like for that gender, to see what lines you could cross socially, etc?
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And if someone does try to contact you thru here and attempts to make it feel cheap, or asking overly personal questions, please report them to Rob, who is one of the site owners, or click on Contact An Administrator. If you belong to Facebook, the quickest way, is thru there. I think he's TooTimid Rob on there.
I too, have had to do this, one a couple of occassions. It does happen, people go over the line, and, if you tell them to stop doing so, or you're not comfortable with the way they're speaking to you, ask them to stop, then report. If it continues, report again, and reach out to one of us, and we'll be sure to do something about it. Be specific. If it's in a post in the forum, be sure to report the post, and reference it so we can investigate.
Of course we love to hear about individual's experiences. But, only with what you feel comfortable sharing that is.This forum is suppose to be a safe-haven for our readers, and hopefully, it continues to be so.
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No, I don't find them distracting, however, I've been using them for a long time now.
The other "for" posters are correct. They do take time to get use too, and, it also depends on the toy. If you're looking at, say, a rabbit toy, which some can have quite a few buttons/features.And, if the first time you decide to try it, is when you're about to have sex, absolutely yes, this can be very distracting.
I suggest, that, when you get something new, you explore it first. It doesn't even need to be when you're about to have sex. Read the box to see what features the toy has, battery needs, and so on. Wash it off first, insert the batteries, making sure that it's all ready to go, then play with the settings, seeing what button/dial does what. Find the setting that you like, and remember it.
I could crack a joke and say that most men won't read the directions, however, most toys don't really come with any. Most of the time, the box just points to the buttons saying what each one does, and whammo, those are your instructions. Some boxes don't even do that. Some battery compartments show which way to put the battery, others just have a positive and negative symbol, and then there are others that just leave guessing. So, again, get your toy all ready to go BEFORE you decide on a toy night.
Another important thing to familiarize yourself with, is the toy materials. Some lubes are not good with some toy materials. Such as, silicone toys and silicone lubes are a no-no. Silicione lubes will, ironically enough, break down a silicone toy. Water-based lubes are the safest way to go, whether it's toys or condoms, in my opinion. But there are those that do prefer silicone lubes. So, just be careful.
Familiarizing yourself with it may sound a bit silly. But, think of it this way: when you get in a new to you car, do you just start it up and go, or do you sit there for a minute or 2, seeing where the gear shift is, turn signals, maybe the air controls? Yes, usually. Same idea.
Remember, sex toys are an enhancement in the bedroom, not replacements.
With anything, there are things to do, remember, and try. Sex toys are just another thing you need to learn about if you're going to start using them. I've been using them regularly since 2008, and, now, it's just second nature with what to do, materials, and what I prefer. It takes time and education. And it's TOTALLY worth the extra fun!!!!
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Curious to know has anyone had the experience of being bisexual or been in a relation with a bisexual and been accepted once your sexual orientation has been revealed?
Fantastic question!!! Love that! Welcome to the forum.
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Got my first strap on. Man I have been cheating my wife. I have a 3.5 inch cock. More like a penis. I have good girth but no length I bought the strap on hollow extension 8.5 inch. Wow wife loved it. I ate her and got her extremely wet and then put the strap on over my cock fucked her for an hour. She was moaning and making noises I have never heard her make. I slipped out of the hollow strap on and left it in her love tunnel and stuck my cock in her ass. She loves it. Can't wait to do it again tonight.
It's fantastic that you're so willing to do this for your wife!! Don't ever think that you were cheating your wife. She married you, and loves you, and it's not all about the size of the cock. I do find it awesome that you're so adventurous and open to trying new exciting things. I hope you post more experiences!!!
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Have you ever used alcohol to get over your shyness when it comes to starting anything sexual, or go up to someone to hit on?
Of course, that happens all the time at bars, but I'm wondering if anyone will admit that they've done so deliberately?
I will admit that, I've used alcohol to overcome my shyness when it came to my GF. We had discussed it first, and she was fine with me having a couple of drinks. I don't think she would've let me do anything if I was drunk off my ass. And, she hadn't been with anyone for 2 years, so she was a bit shy too. I wasn't drunk by any means, but I did feel kinda good when we had our first kiss and the first time we were intimate, and the first time I went down on her too. But, again, I wasn't drunk drunk, just buzzed. Once I got over my initial shyness, it's all been good.
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I'm trying to refresh some old topics. I thought this one was a pretty interesting. I'd love to see some of our newer members respond to this.
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I'm in there right now.
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The Houston Gay Pride event and parade happened the very next day. It was insanely busy there! I think the decision had a lot to do with that.
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Just what it says!!
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How do you try to keep the "spark" alive in your relationship with your spouse/SO?
What do you do in every day life and dealings to help keep it fun and loving?
What do you do sexually to keep the interest and excitement going on in the bedroom (or out of it (; )?
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Lube is your friend when it comes to anal sex! Glad you had an explosive experience!!!
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What is the correct way
There is no one correct way. Each man is different. Some like a light touch. Others, like a firm grip. Some like it dry, others wet.......you have to ask your man what he likes. You can do this very huskily, and sexy, while you're playing, asking him what he wants you to do with your hands. Just ask.....
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I am going thru some old posts, and thought that this was an interesting one. Anyone else experience this? How did you handle it?
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This can apply to any sort of relationship, not just a heterosexual one.
Anyone else have any input about how they think sex is more than physical?
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Very nice. Thanks for sharing.
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Not everyone does anal sex as a regular part of their sexual adventures. It can be done whenever you're in the mood for it. Or, your man just be waiting for that oh, so sexy "put your finger in my ass" from you again.
If he knows that you're not as comfortable with it, he may be just waiting for your cue.Good luck!!!! Let us know how it goes!!
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Welcome!!! I always love seeing new members, especially those willing to share information. Can't wait to see some posts!!!
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When truly excited, your own personal fluids will help lubricate your vagina. It IS an amazing part of the body. Capable of stretching to accommodate a penis, have a baby go thru, and menstrual cycles. However, if a man is,well, well endowed, and your body isn't use to relaxing as big as he is, or for you to relax and get fully excited, this can cause anxiety and possible pain. Age, weight, hydration status (if you're dehydrated, your vagina will be too), and menstrual status/menopause can all effect your wetness.
Also, being truly excited gets your other female parts tucked up where they need to be for protection and comfort. Did you know that, when a female is excited, her uterus actually goes up a bit, so it won't get too jostled with the thrusting, and so that maximum sperm travel is possible? If you're not truly excited, it can cause an almost crampy type of pain. Nobody wants that.
No matter what, it's always a good idea, especially if you know you're tight and may have lubrication concerns, is to have a bottle of personal lubricant. If you have concerns of possible sensitivities, use water-based ones. Trust me, they really do help!!!
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So, do you think that marriage equality passing the Supreme Court was a good move, or is it invasive of the state's rights?
Please keep your answers and comments respectful.
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Coffee brandy with a touch of milk, butterscotch schnops, Long Island Iced Tea, Seabreeze, or a Malibu. The monkey one sounds good too!! I also like one I got off Facebook. I save the pic, which had the ingredients in it. It's called The Barbie. YUM!!! Yeah, I like fruity drinks.
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The problem with that RC is that life doesn't settle down. Sometimes you just have to grab a pole, dip in your line and fish no matter what time of day it is. The river won't stop flowing whether or not you go with it.
You are ABSOLUTELY correct! Sometimes, people just have to be open for the experiences. Or make their own experiences. Relationships aren't usually planned. I wasn't really actively looking for anyone. I met my GF on a dating site, after pretty much giving up on dating altogether! As long as you're open to the possibilities, then anything may happen.
First Dates? What's Your Preference?
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A nice dinner, walk, going for a drive, going to a park, or even walking the mall is all good.
I hate movies as a first date! Movies are meant for watching and being quiet. How can you get to know someone if you can't talk, or have to whisper everything?
My best first date was actually my last first date, with my now GF. And I'm not just saying that because she's my GF. We went to a nice restaurant, had a nice, slow paced dinner, then we went to the Halloween store to look around. That was fun. We had each gotten each other a Hallween themed gift, ironically, as a first date thing (not flowers, which is a plus). Then, she took me for a really nice drive to Galveston. We rode the ferry and back, then back to the restaurant so I could get my car.
It was very nice. Each time I get in her truck, I'm reminded of that first date, and how special she made it, and how simple. It was a perfect way to get to know someone.