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  1. Don't ever label yourself as a failure. As women, we are nurturers, and therefore we feel responsible if something is wrong in our relationships. It's a natural thing.

    I learned in my 11 yrs of marriage, that, if only ONE person is making all the effort into the relationship, then it won't work out. Until he is willing to accept that there may be something physically wrong with him, which he has no control over, then nothing you do or say will help. You can't make him accept that. It may be many things, weight, diet, diabetes, medications he's on, depression, ect. But if he doesn't want to address it, it will stay the same. I'm sorry, that's probably not what you want to hear, but we're hear to tell the truth based on our experiences.

    I wish you much luck in this. I hope you find happiness.

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  2. I just love strap-ons! I especially love the ones that offer dual pleasuring such as this quality toy.

    Let me start with the harness. This beautiful harness is a nice purple with a black lace panel on the front. The straps that go around the buttocks are a comfortable elastic for added sizing. Now, the strap that goes around the waist, though like the other straps I've had on other harnesses, falls just a tad too short. I'm a "hippy" size 14. It did not.....quite....make.....it. However, that did not deter me, and I do plan on making it a little longer with some feminine ingenuity later.

    The black jelly 7" dildo is impressively detailed with veins and head. The base is pretty firm so that it'll stay in the harness better. Even with a good washing, the "new toy smell" stayed around for a bit. I loved the feel of it. It looks really impressivein the harness. VERY hot!!

    This item comes with a small bullet that can go into a small container that you can put it in securely and then it can go inside of you. The flap to put the bullet in also has velcro on it, so it is in there securely. The bullet is a satiny black and so is the remote. The remote takes 2 AAA batteries, and with a touch of the power button, then a touch of the button below, you have really strong vibes with 20 pulsation/strength patterns. I was totally impressed with the vibes. Being a gal that likes stronger vibes, that's saying something!

    You can use the bullet in the harness, or seperately, just like the dildo. This is a fantastic set. Oh, let's not forget, it came with a small black satin blindfold as well, for added sensory sensations!

    If you're not hippy, and looking for a really good dual action harness, I definitely recommend this harness set. I give this toy 3 out of 4 Tyger paws for power and strength.

    http://www.tootimid.com/fetish-fantasy-remote-control-dual-vibe-strap-on-6588.html#

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  3. I am assuming you meant Tyger LOL!! Yes, I am happy with it. I've been communicating with one gentleman, and our first date is this Saturday. I'm not sure I'm overly ready, but it's nice to get out there. I've also messaged 2 other men tonight to see where it goes. I'm not looking for anything serious, but I do want to get out a bit more. There's no point in staying home every weekend. Texas is a big place, and I'd like to go and see more of it. I like how I can peruse the site, and look at their profiles & pictures before I reach out. I've had about 4 reach out to me as well. Only one I have given my number to. I'm nervous as hell and unsure of what to expect.

    I think that all dating sites have pros & cons. Even that Christian site probably has assholes in it. So we'll see how it goes.

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  4. I don't think of getting married again. I haven't even gone on a date yet. I've been single for almost a year and a half now. Most men I've met are bitter, selfish, and just want sex. I'm not down for that right now. Though I have a friend that is looking for a FWB situation, which I will do, since I'm not looking for anything serious.

    I just found out some ridiculous news about my ex. He's been with this girl (same first name as mine), for about 4 months, and now they're pregnant!! Nice to have a baby with a rebound! LOL I'm upset more for my daughter, who has been dealing with all of this very well, but has only met this woman only recently, and is a bit jealous. She's also been very adament about not wanting any more siblings. So, we'll see how this all goes. I'm not seeing this go over well at all, and my daughter being hurt. I was one of the first people he told. How messed up is that? LOL But I am not going to band-aide this up for him with his daughter. I'm done trying to help him with HIS relationship with his daughter. He gave me a lame excuse of her being on strong antibiotics and it probably effecting her birth control pill. Personally, I think she may have done this on purpose because she doesn't have anything, is 34, and believes all of his "pity me" bullshit. So, she didn't care. You must be a special kind of stupid, being almost 35, having been on birth control for a long time, and not knowing you're birth control pill can be weakened by certain meds. Plus, if he didn't want kids right now (I knew he'd have another one with someone else....he's always wanted a boy), he should've wrapped it!

    So, I'm trying really hard not to be anti-man, but it's very hard not to be with all of the users, idiots, and foolishness I've encountered. I know there are good men out there, but there are so many more that are so bitter, they're all about playing a game, using, or trying to make themselves feel better about themselves, that I haven't found any worthy of my time in a relationship. I'm in no hurry. Since I have a child, I have to be more careful, descreet, and selective.

  5. I have never cheated on a SO. But at the end of my last LTR I was very tempted. She decided that she was no longer interested in sex. After several months that became difficult. This became one of many reasons that we ended the relationship.

    I think in situations such as this, it's hard NOT to cheat. Especially if you are an extremely sexual person, young, or yes, even male, it's almost a given. It takes a strong person to NOT cheat if they're feeling neglected in one form or another.

    I never thought my ex husband would cheat on me. He never did. Though, I wasn't interested in him sexually for a very long time, with long periods of no sex (yes, ME). I kept urging him to try and bond with me, talk with me, make me WANT to be intimate with him. Just sitting there, playing XBox, and ignoring me other than the times he wanted sex, was NOT the way to make me desire him. I felt alone, for the last 6 yrs of our relationship, due to his neglecting me as his wife, friend, and partner. I was so down, and uninterested, even cheating on him didn't feel like an option. I was void in many ways.

  6. I always recommend glass dildos and a good silicone vibe. Bullet vibe are always good and non-threatening if that is an issue. There are some good lubes that can spice thing a little.

    This is a great idea. Or, maybe you could start out with a Wedge, which is an inflatable pc that can add a lot of fun to your love making. You can use it for a variety of positions, and it can be deflated after use so you can save space. Fetish makes a great one I've tried. It was a lot of fun!!! And, it's not overly kinky, or intimidating either.

  7. Who doesn't love arousal products that work? I know I do!! After all, for women, we know it's all about the clit and the attention that it gets for us to get off really well!

    Je T'aime has 3 types of arousal gels. I happened to get the Ecstacy one in the .5 oz bottle. I love the packaging, it looks very classy & simple. The bottle has a good seal and firm cap to it, and the dispenser is a push top pump, so you don't have to worry about squirting out too much. It only takes a little push to get out the right amount.

    It's made with all natural ingredients, and ensured that it's paraben, glycerin, and sugar free, so it shouldn't cause irritation as easily as some other stimulants. There is a slight peppermint smell to it & labia, which adds a nice fresh touch.

    I pumped a few drops onto my finger, and rubbed it around, and on my clit, letting it soak in a bit. I added a bit more because it wasn't really causing any sensation at first. I did feel some heat, and tingling after a few minutes, but nothing spectacular or mind-blowing.

    Clean up was a breeze, and with just a little soap and water, I didn't feel any residue. This product is clear as well, so no stain worries.

    I think this stuff would be good for someone experimenting with stimulating products as a gentle start, or even someone that is very, very sensitive. Maybe it would work better for them.

    I give it one Tyger Paw up (out of 4 paws).

    http://www.tootimid.com/je-taime-arousal-gel-6360.html

  8. I am glad to have the 13 done and over with. 2014 has to get better. I ended the year with being told that my services were no longer required. Asa result I am beginning a nation wide job search. I have few leads. I am hoping to find a teaching position as well as a position in my first profession. I had a LTR go south. She is a wonderful person, caring, kind, intelligent, and stable. Unfortunately the was little passion and we seemed to be moving in different directions.

    Having said this, I tend to be a very positive person, addicted to passion, and always perusing happiness. I know thing will work out. There is a great job out there for me. My bigger difficulty will be meeting new people, as I tend to be painfully socially anxious in personal or private settings such as gatherings and parties. I do we'll one on one and that is my strength.

    Peace, love and connection will happen.

    I'm glad to see you're trying to have a positive attitude towards all of this. That's GREAT!! I too am starting out the new year on a better-for-me foot! I've been single for a little over a year, and I am loving it. This year can only get better now that the drama and pain of a divorce are over and done with. My ex isn't moping around or pissy anymore because he's dating again, and he's dating a woman with my first name, which I find hilarious!! LOL Anyway, I hope things get better for you on a regular basis.

  9. I recieved the Eve's Delight in the pretty blue color. Opening it up, it had that "new jelly toy" to it. A little bit of washing, patting dry, and it went away for the most part. With jelly toys, you're usually going to have a slight smell to it anyway.

    Grabbing the needed 2 AA batteries, though the packaging clearly states AA batteries, it was actually needing AAA batteries.. Awesome. I keep plenty of both on hand, so that was an easy fix. I put them in, and turned it on by twisting the base. The vibes were a decent strength, but not overly strong. Nor was this toy very loud either. That's a plus.

    This toy is a bit small, which can be great for a newbie, however, for a successful g-spot toy, the shaft should be a bit firmer than this toy was. The insertable length is almost 3", which, is about an inch too short on average, to stimulate the g-spot. The head was bulbous, for extra stimulation, but, it really didn't help.

    The "butterfly" on the clit stimulator part was cute, but, again, since the shaft was too short, the was frustratingly weak because you didn't get the right spot at all.

    Insertion was easy since this was jelly, and smooth, and it felt ok, but I was left with an ache that this toy clearly couldn't fill at all. It needs a longer shaft, more power, and, well, just more. I try to find the good in almost every toy, but this one was definitely a big failure for me.

    Sorry, I give this toy a 4 Tyger paws waaaaaaaaaaaay down. :(

    http://www.tootimid.com/eves-delight-vibe-waterproof-6428.html

  10. I'm not great with growing flowers, and, thankfully, there's no need to worry about my lack of a green-thumb with this pretty flower!

    This "rabbit" has up to date technology with dual motors that seperately control each bullet. When I first saw "micro-bullet" for the insertable part, I seriously questioned this toy's ability to provide me with the strong vibes that I prefer. Let me tell you that micro doesn't mean weak!! The clit stimulator has a bigger bullet, which is the area that I usually find lacking, so that was a relief there.

    There's a badge on the front of the box that says Gold for Quality and Innovation, and this toy has earned it!

    Pretty in pink and clear jelly, this 10" toy isn't anything to just sniff at. The jelly is fairly unscented, and supple. But, this toy is decently firm and I was ready to power this flower with my 3 AA batteries. This toy is waterproof, which adds even more possibilities for this toy. Now, don't be scared of the 6 buttons on the shaft. One is the on/off switch, there are 2 buttons for each the shaft and the clit stimulator bullets, and in the middle, it controls the functions of the bullets. Since there are so many options, you can get over 200 different vibration combinations on this pretty toy.

    The thing that interested me the most, was the clit stimulator. As many of us know, it's ALL about the clit!! This stimulator is the actual "flower",or, in my opinion, the crowning jewel of this particular toy. It's haped as a large petalled flower. the center of it has these "pistolettes for added stimulation. Plus, the petals allow full contact, and fully encapsulating (full contact) of the whole thing.

    The insertable length of this toy is a little over 5", and, it's just right! It's got a phallic shape to the head, but it's not intimidating or scary in the least. It's smooth, and shaped just enough for perfect internal stimulation.

    I was impressed with ALL settings of the vibe strength and patterns. This toy has enough padding around the bullets to create a fairly quiet toy, that won't easily be heard thru closed doors.

    The handle is smooth, but has 3 ridges and the raised button control panel does add enough contours for a fairly easy grip.

    I LOVED this toy!!!! Pretty, strong, quiet, waterproof, and stimulates my clit not so petal soft!!! Oh yeah!!!! I'd recommend this for beginners and advanced users alike!

    I give this toy a 3.5 Tyger Paw (out of 4) rating.

    http://www.tootimid.com/wild-orgasm-orchid--waterproof-6316.html#

  11. I like things that light up in the night!! I also like toys that have strong vibes, stimulate my clit, are smooth, and are waterproof. Keeping all of that in mind, I love this new toy I got. The Lighted Shimmers LED Hummer.

    This hard plastic, hot pink cutie is a total length of a little over 7", and about 1.25" in diamter in some places. Twist off the bottom screw on/off cap, and insert 2 AA batteries, screw the cap back on, and twist yourself into high to low vibes. The little LED lights go brighter when the vibes get stronger!

    I have a Hummer similar to this one, but it doesn't light up. I love this one as well. Perfect for various parts of stimulation, it has a pointy part at the tip that kind of looks like it's sticking its nose up in the air which is great for specific stimulation especially on the clit. On the other side, it has an oval shaped O in it, perfect for cupping your labia or even the clit, offering a nice "hum job" for you! Then, to top it all off, the shaft has a total of 3 curves in it for added inner stimulation!

    This toy is fantastic!! I got the strong vibes I crave on my eager clit and labia, stimulation I love inside smoothly and firmly, and all with pretty lights!!! This toy is a great idea for someone that doesn't really know what kind of stimulator, vibrator, or fancy gadget to get. This toy is well rounded for the expert or novice toy user alike!! It has a semi phallic shape to it without seeming to be intimidating or a huge length/girth to it either. The lights are fun and add some whimsy, and best of all, this toy works!!!!

    I gived this toy a rating of 4 Tyger Paws (out of 4) up in da air!!!!!

    http://www.tootimid.com/lighted-shimmers-hummer-LED-pink-glow-waterproof-vibrator.html

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