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There are female condoms, by the way.
Open communication is key, and maybe draw some lines what each of you don't want the other to do. For example, no kissing her on the lips.
Also, if one of you gets uncomfortable, maybe a "safe word" that seems out of place so as not to get confused in the heat of the moment, to stop the action that's going on at the time, like truck, Twinkies, yellow, something you both agree on.
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Oh, and not every woman just cums all of the time, every time. Don't go by porn movies where girls orgasm all over the place. You're really young by your profile, you may need more time and experience to figure out how and what your body likes/prefers to orgasm alone & with a partner. :-)
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Mike asked great questions, as always. Really think upon them before answering them, even if just to yourself. Just wanted to add a little nugget of info that may help ease your mind: about 85% of women need clitoral stimulation to be able to orgasm. So if you have been able to orgasm with clit stimulation, you are not alone. :-)
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Separate, not desperate cars. Lmao!
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Well, I've had this topic on my browser for a couple of days ago because this isn't an uncommon issue, especially with all of the networking sites popping up nowadays.
Randy has some great points. Most people, in relationships or not, flirt. And, let's face it, it feels really good when someone you don't know, or don't know well, flirts with you. It makes you feel more desirable, which can boost your sex drive. Women's self-esteem is highly kinked to their sex drive. But flirting feels good no matter if you're male or female.
I've been in your GF's shoes. I have a male friend I've known since I was 14. We flirt to this day. Up until my divorce in 99, I never took the flirting seriously, & neither did he. When we were in committed relationships, it was harmless. I still love him, as a friend who's been there for me. We've given each other insight in many things, including sex. But we don't delve into each other's personal sex life.
You need to ask yourself do you trust her? Is your gut feeling telling you this is harmless flirting, at least on her part? Are you blowing their conversations out of proportion? When you talk to her about it, do you make her feel guilty or defensive? It's hard accepting that another person is making your SO feel good, but if she's committed to you, and nothing's happened, what harm is it that she has a friend? Personally, for the longest time, I had more male friends-less drama & BS that way.
Trust is key in any relationship. People thought I was crazy for letting my current husband to go see his ex-wife's son. He'd been there for the birth, & the child has MS, & he'd been told the child was very sick & wanted to see him. I trusted him & let him go. Nothing happened. He hasn't been back since, but at least he knows I trust him. He was up front & honest, & asked me if it was OK. Hence why I trusted him. You could ask for that same sort of honesty. You could also ask her not to meet with this guy alone, but in public places, in desperate cars. Showing her some trust may help her grow more socially, which would boost her self-confidence & help with her trust issues too. Hopefully, this guy respects the boundaries of her being in a relationship. :-)
Best wishes.
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Who loves wearing vibrators under their clothes? I know I do! I love going about the house with a wearable vibrator to add a little bit of fun to the household chores. The only thing I don't care for most of the time are those pesky straps that you have to put on, wrap around, hook here, adjust there. Sometimes those types are fun, and the straps help keep them strapped in place. However, what does one do if they want to quickly put something in without all the strap-hassle? Tuck in the Panty Play silicone vibrator.
This purple toy is silky smooth, has a removable bullet vibe with 2 settings, and is perfectly shaped to stay in place. It's only about 2" wide & 5.25" long so it's also a great discreet size to tuck into luggage, purse, or other small bag. It also comes with the 1 AAA battery needed to get the vibes going! Gotta love included batteries!
Deciding one day to do some pleasurable household chores, I cleaned off the toy with warm water & soap, slid it down into my panties, adjusted its position to maximize the vibes. Of course, I prefer the higher settings, so I got the button pushed twice to do so. The button on the top of the bullet was a bit hard to get pushed down, but I finally got it pressed. I was wearing some bike shorts, so the tip of the bullet stuck out a bit, which was obvious to me that I was wearing something. Though unless you have someone staring at your crotch, it may just look like fabric puckering. The vibes are pretty quiet too.
I love the ridge that not only gives your vulva pleasure, but also helps keep the vibrator in place. I walked around the house with it on for a while, allowing it to buzz pleasure to my clit and vulva. About 30 minutes later, I had a fantastic wave of clit orgasms that had to holding on to the kitchen sink, twitching & moaning with pleasure.
I give this toy 3 out of 4 Tyger paws. I usually like a stronger vibes, but it did the trick. I recommend this toy to anyone that loves a quick release without a lot of hassle. This toy is perfect for all of us busy women always on the go!
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Exactly, timing & how you say it are very important. Think about how you would want to be told without getting offended and try that. :-). Good luck! :-)
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Apparently, when I'm on the phone discussing business, my voice changes. I had to go into the security office to make a phone call at a retailer I worked for. There was one security officer in there. They kept the room dark so they could watch the video monitors better. after I hung up the phone, the security officer told me that next time he knew I was coming in, he'd light a candle to set the mood. LOL So, every so often, I'd call him in his office (we flirted all of the time, but never went ant further) and huskily ask him a question, or tell him to watch someone. LOL
them there was the time where I was in some training for a new software program, but the "class" was being held via phone conference. At the end, the guy asked if we had any questions, & I just said thanks, but I'll learn more once I go & explore the program more on my own. The guy on the phone said "oh yes. I always recommend that you just go in & play with it & see what happens & just have fun with it." I swear, it took every ounce of willpower not to run with that!!! Or not to bust out laughing! I think I have a scar on my tongue from biting it so hard, :-)
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I'm just woundering how often should a girl masturbate and what age should you start.
Welcome Carly. Yep, Wendy's spot on, there's no magic masturbation number. Some women, I've heard, don't masturbate at all, while some do so daily. It's whatever, whenever you want to do so. That's one reason why toy companies make a large variety of discreet/small, purse sized vibes. Stash n' play, so to speak. Do whatever makes you feel good when you want. :-)
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My hubby likes to both anally masturbate & have me pleasure him that way too. You're definitely not alone. It's just one of those things most men don't even dare mention because of the stigma anal play has.
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Well, I know that I'm being less tolerant of stuff, and irritable. As easy as it is to say "just leave", it's not that easy when there's a family involved. I just don't really like him as a person that much anymore. I have a feeling we won't make it to our 11th wedding anniversary. We just celebrated our 10th a few weeks ago though. He surprised me with a pretty sterling silver forever loop ring with cz's though. I'm getting frustrated because everytime we seem to start catching up on bills, something big happens which sets us back. For example, I was able to negotiate with the IRS & got our debt erased. But it was HIS error for not filing for that year, yet I am the one to stress out about it, and take care of it.
He's caught up on his back ue child support, and he has a job. It's not a great paying one, but it's more than the nothing he was bringing in before! Today, he got into an altercation at work, which he had witnesses that said it wasn't his fault, but the other guy's, and the other guy kicked him when he was down, and stomped on his left leg, breaking the lower femur, in a spiralling fracture. The place he works at doesn't have insurance, & neither do we. Awesome. His work will let him come back, so long so long as he sits.
I have to plan ahead, because this house belongs to his parents. He. May leave temporary, but I know I will have to leave soon after.
Frustrated because I feel like I'm the only one to take care of stuff, including cleaning.Every I try to talk with him, he sulks, tries to play a blame-game, like a child, or doesn't want to talk about it.
Anyway, updates will come when there's more. Thanks for asking though. *muah*
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Who else has had the daunting experience of trying to find a masturbator for their significant other as a surprise? I mean, you have so many options: colors, shapes, sizes, lengths, body parts, textured, ribbed, smooth, animals? Ugh, it's a bit overwhelming.
So, after perusing the site a while, I came across this little lovely. Jenna's Pussy Masturbator! Made of TPE, Non-phthlate, antibacterial sil-a-gel (aka silicone), it's 7.25" long, and flesh colored. There are raised bumps on the outside and inside of the shaft for added gripping and stimulation. The silicone also makes it feel like real skin.
I was pretty excited since hubby is rather well-endowed at 9" long hard, it's very, um,difficult to find a masturbator that won't expose him too much, loosing the stimulation. He also doesn't like any "funky colors", animal shapes, or full bodies like a full woman's shape since he says it makes it look like he's screwing Thumbilina! LOL
When it came, I took it out of the box first. It's no secret that I'm a fan of Jenna's, and since this is molded from her (for the most part since I doubt she has raised bumps inside LOL) it looks decently real. It's a natural looking flesh tone, and the lips/clit are colored pink for that added visual appeal.
I stuck my fingers inside her, and yes, you can feel those bumps inside. I did laugh though, since it is so long, it's a bit "floppy", but since men's hands are usually rather large, that won't matter.
Hubby used it that night, and was impressed with how it felt. This is a shocker, since he was very skeptical about this one since so many others we've tried have failed. He said he'd definitely use it again. It cleaned up well, and didn't tear. He says it felt great, and didn't expose his "man-part" a lot, and doesn't choke him off.
Yes, I got jealous, but not in the way you may be thinking. So, one day, I decided I needed to try her out myself. I put on my strap on, and lubed "Jenna" up and had her for myself. I loved how she stretched and retracted agains my "cock", and the shaft was very easy to hang on too. Clean up was also easy for me, and we may be using her again as a "three-some" soon!
I would recommend this toy for almost every man. It's a quality product, made by Doc Johnson which I've always been impressed with. I give it 4 out of 4 Tyger Paws waaaaaaaaaaaay up!!!
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no one can really say what will happen in the next few days,hours and minutes.. and people really do change (in every aspect, may it be phsically,mentally and emotionally)
Well said. :-)
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I have thought of this, here's why:
First off, there would be no hard feelings after, since the human contact wouldn't be there, but imaging that doll as a willing third party would be a turn on for me since I do have a very active imagination.
Another real reason would be due to my STD status. Having what I do makes it hard (in my mind at least) to find a willing partner. I don't think in real life it'd be that hard, but I don,t want to put myself fully out there like that for a fling or experiment.
So, to me, it'd be an emotionally & physically safer way to have a 3some, in my eyes.
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While at work, many of us have had conversations that started out innocently enough, but a word or phrase turned it into a sexual-sounding conversation.
Please share some of your funnies! I have a great one, but I want to read some others first. Yeah. I'm soooooo like that! LOL :-)
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No, neither husband asked permission. My father was deceased by the time I met my 2nd. Besides, if the first one had, I think my dad would've told him he'd better ask me since he never had to worry about me (I was the responsible one lol). :-)
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Are you sure it will fit?
Can be asked for many different reasons!
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Welcome back!
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I use to love giving head to my hubby. However, since he got hurt, 4 yrs ago, he's smoking more & on pain meds, so his taste is unappealing to me,even when it's just a tease sucking. Since I don't like to do it, I don't expect him to do NY oral play on me.
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I'm going to just address the topic of this post. You have 2 very good topics which should be done seperately to give them the discussions they deserve, IMHO.
Do I find porn degrading to women? No. Most women in porn go there by choice, whether because they want the money, fame, or to be in more control. The things they do in the movies are by choice. Porn covers aaaaalllll sorts of fetishes, preferences, ect. Some of which may seem demeaning to those that don't enjoy that particular sort of thing.
Now, I'm not saying they're aren't sleazy companies that misuse their employees/stars. I'm sure they exist. And abuse does happen in those situations.
It's not a secret that I enjoy watching porn. I've had a large selection of it over the years. Some was great, some, OK, and,well, frankly, sucked. I steer clear of the shadier companies, & the ones that In don't like. Do I always like what I see? No. But I don't find it degrading.
I agree that there is a double-standard: women who enjoy sex and/or have many partners, they're a slut & looked down upon. Men who do the same things are studs & looked up to.
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I get what you're saying totally. Don't be apologetic on what your preferences are. It's your choice if you want to meet this person or not. You can try a date or 2, & see how it goes. I usually prefer men taller than I, but I was approached by a guy at work (years ago) that was about 6" shorter than I. We were together 4 years, & have remained friends to this day. He was a man that I am glad I gave a chance too.
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I am VERY susseptible to bladder infections (due to a genetic imperfection of my urethra), and I too masturbate a lot. Cleaning the vibrator is one thing, but do you clean YOURSELF before and after as well? I use antibacterial LIQUID soap on ALL of my toys & to clean myself up too. I'm a pro at masturbation AND bladder infection prevention. Be sure you get all of the lube off of the toy as well as your body. Don't leave it there for too long. Afterglow is nice, but if you're more prone to infections, cleaning up is more important.
Have you noticed any irritation around your labia as well? Maybe you're allergic to latex, and if your toy is rubber, that could irritate you as well.
There are several reasons for bladder infections: drinking too many dark colas/coffee, not wiping front to back properly, change in laundry detergent, bathing with bubble bath soap, using a different kind of soap/lube/personal hygiene item, nylon panties (don't allow the area to get enough air flow), tight pants, not drinking enough water.....there's all sorts of reasons.
I would say that it's probably one of those. Again, I masturbate frequently, and never get a bladder infection from it. I usually can pinpoint why I get one if I think about my actions the previous days before symptoms appear.
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I'm sorry to hear about your mother. It's extremely hard when we loose a parent. My deepest condolences to you.
However,after someone close to us dies, it is very normal for someone to feel horny, ironically. Death makes us feel like living!
It sounds like you're using this site in replacement of real contact./interaction Why is that? Replacing real human contact with websites and sex toys isn't an answer for anything. Though, people on websites can't see you (unless you want them too), the attraction of fantasy is very strong. Online, behind a keyboard, you can be whomever you want to be, look & act however you want too.
If you think that visiting the site that you frequent is getting out of hand, then you may have to wean yourself off of it. Start by not going on there at your usual time, like an hour later, and only stay for half the time you normally do. If you find you can't wean yourself off, counseling may be necessary. If you feel that it may be a problem, then it probably is.
Please keep posting.
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Having an increase in your self esteem will boost your sex drive no matter what the age. Congrats on your new-founded self confidence!! LOVE it!
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Other that perusing TooTomid, what other things do you enjoy doing in your personal life?
I think we've done this post before, but I'm feeling too lazy to find it to bump it up! :-) LOL
I think many of you already know I do photography, and some may know I love making jewelry. I also enjoy doing my own nails, read (real books, not on Kindle/Nook), play with our horses/dogs/cats, listen to music, go shopping (duh), go yard saleing, roller skating, walking, gardening, biking, camping, and some writing. :-)