mevhayden

O.K. SO I AM NEW TO THIS SITE, BUT THE FUNNIEST THING IS THAT MY QUESTION WAS ABOUT TO BE THE SAME THING!!! MY HUSBAND LEFT TO GO TO IRAQ IN JANUARY. WE HAVE GREAT SEX WHEN WE'RE TOGETHER, BUT HE'S NEVER MASTURBATED IN FRONT OF ME AND NEITHER HAVE I. I GUESS HE FEELS IF HE HAS ME THERE, WHY DO IT HIMSELF, RIGHT? WELL NOW, TO MY SURPRISE, HE'S CALLED ME UP AND ASKED TO HAVE PHONE SEX. IT'S FUN AND SURPISING FOR ME, BUT NOW THAT I'VE BOUGHT MY 1ST VIBRATOR, I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD TELL HIM. I EVEN THOUGHT OF BUYING HIM A "SLEEVE" OR A POCKET PUSSY, AS A SURPRISE, BUT I'M UNSURE OF HOW HE'LL REACT. TO TOP IT ALL OFF, I'VE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO ORGASM DURING INTERCOURSE, ONLY DURING ORAL & DIRECT STIMULATION, SO I'M AFRAID I'LL START ENJOYING THE TOY TOO MUCH, AND RESENT NOT BEING ABLE TO DO THE SAME WITH HIM WHEN HE COMES BACK. FOR WHATEVER REASON MY ANATOMY JUST WILL NOT LET ME PEAK WITH OUT CLITORAL STIMULATION. WHAT TO DO????