Johnny P.

Coincidentally we have the same history and she has the same issue. We’ve pretty much limited the activity to my doing oral on her which she loves once we get it going. I also have been using trimix injections to offset the ED, but never for vaginal penetration but instead for the great feeling it gives me and she’ll jerk me to a dry orgasm. Not as much fun getting older. A WORD TO YOU YOUNGSTERS: you need to enjoy and do anything and everything while you can, including kinks, fetishes, etc. Remember, your mind may always want it but your body cannot always provide it.

I’ve suggested that route and she answered NO, but didn’t make a big fuss.

I came home one day and showed my wife some nice soft black female panties (6 pair) that I bought in a ladies store. Told her I wanted to wear them because I read an article that indicates they are smooth and comfortable. She went ballistic and I thought I’d be risking my marriage if I insisted on using them. She took them and I’ve never seen them since. So much for being open with her. I really thought it could have been an entree to other future kinks. So back to little vanilla when possible. Anyone have any ideas besides leaving here which I won’t do after 38 years of marriage. Thanks!

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