[Normal?]

First off I want to say Thanks to Mikayla. I took your advice on the toys and am very pleased with your recommendations. However now I have a question. I need to know if this is normal or if I should see a doctor. Last night when I was with my bf, we were enjoying ourselves. In the middle of him fucking my ass, he grabbed the vibrator and started using it on me. Next thing I know he's using it on my vagina while he's taking care of the back. Anyhow, it got very intense and when I had my orgasm something happened. Not sure exactly what. I remember it only up to a point. Then the next thing I remember was my bf friend, holding me and talking to me. When I asked him what happened he said I had fainted from my climax being so intense. He seemed to think it was no big deal. It's never happened to me before. Is it normal or is it possible there's something wrong with me? I would be embarassed to talk to my doctor about it, if it's perfectly normal.

[New To Toys]

Ok, so you want more realistic - I can work with that.

For a realistic non-vibrating dildo, try this one. It is realistic looking and feeling. You will have to maintain it carefully though, the state of the art material it is made of takes care to maintain.

Cyberskin Cock:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4664

For a virbating choice, try this one. It has realistic look and feel. I personally love cyberskin for that flesh-like feeling.

Pleasure Skin Vibrating Dildo:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4629

Now, you can go this route, solid rubber, economical, choice of sizes - 6, 8 or 9 inches. These have a non-realistic feel, but a realistic look. They will get the job done for penetration if you are adding a mini-vibe you should be go to go:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3348

Now, lets talk vibrators.

If you want a good, intense, will probably get you to orgasm every time mini-vibe for clitoral stim, I HIGHLY recommend the Hustler Rock-It Mini-Vibe:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4680

If you prefer something with more versatility, you can try a bullet - those can be inserted if you choose, can be used for anal stim, and used on your man too. Any bullet would probably do, try this one:

http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3475

There, I hope this helps and you find something that works for both of you!

Mikayla

Thanks for the suggestions! My order from TooTimid is on the way. I appreciate the advice. I look forward to getting my package and trying them out.

[New To Toys]

Ok, well I think I might need some more information from you.

Dildos and Dongs do not vibrate - for the most part, although a few do - so if you are looking for something that would vibrate inside, you will need a vibrator.

IF you want just a plain dildo or dong there are many to choose from - realistic, jelly, silicone, glass - you really need to tell me more of what you are looking for.

If you go vibrator - do you want small, medium, ribbed, textured?

If you want something to help you climax, you may something that will penetrate you vaginally and give you clitoral stimulation - those are called "Dual Actions."

Perhaps you want something that you can use together - like a 'Diving Dolphin' cock ring and clitoral stimulator - or bullets. Bullets are nice for clitoral, anal or scrotal (ball) stimulation.

Are you into anal sex? There is another whole realm of anal toys to explore - plugs, vibrators, dildos.

My basic recommendation for a beginner is a vibrator - only because I know that 90% or more of women can not climax without clitoral stimulation and a vibrator will do that right quick for most women if placed on the clit. So, with a vibe, you can have the penetration, then switch to the vibrations. Many men like to watch the penetration part too.

Or, get a plain Dildo with a mini Vibe (Huster Mini-Vibe is EXCELLENT) then your bf can penetrate you with the Dildo and you can put the little vibe on your clit! You will have a very intense orgasm this way!

Without more information to what you want, I can only really suggest shopping around to try to find something that peaks your interest! Answer some of my questions and I may be able to help you further!

Mikayla

Ok, there's alot more to this than I realised. I think I would like to try both something that vibrates and something that doesn't. I would prefer something more realistic looking and feeling since I tend to be a very visual person. I want something that can be used for penetration also. Since we haven't used anything before I would want to stick to something similar in size to him, say the 6 1/2 to 7 inch range. we do want to be able to use it together.

We do enjoy anal sex and would like to explore this area also. I hope that this helps some.

Thanks for all the help!

[New To Toys]

My boyfriend wants to bring toys into our play. I'm open to it but I've never owned or used any kind of a toy. When I asked him what he wanted he said he would like us to use a dildo. He couldn't tell me anymore than that. I've looked and looked but I'm not sure what a good choice is to start with. I've read all the reviews that have been posted on here and I'm not any closer to making a decision. So please I want to hear what you all think would be good for a beginner.

[First Time]

I think it's a real shame that things like this aren't discussed more openly. I am so happy I stumbled onto this forum. When I tried to talk about anal sex with some of my friends they all were very negative and some were quite shocked. All I can say is I feel so sad for them. They sure don't know what they are missing.

[First Time]

I have recently become involved in a relationship with someone. he has alot more experience than I do. From the very beginning he has made it known to me that he's very into my ass. I wasn't suprised when he brought up the topic of anal sex. I really care for him and trust him so I agreed. The experience was not what I expected. After talking to several of my friends I was prepared for an unpleasant time. However it was absolutely incredible!!!!! Now I'm alittle concerned though. I Loved it and it seems to be all I can think about. I enjoy being with him in every way. He's really brought out my inner goddess, but is it normal to be this into anal sex after just one time?