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I would have to say only once also. Meaning that truly, madly, deeply kind of love. The kind that when it ends rips your heart out and stomps it into bits. I have been in lust too many times. Not that I always gave into it tho! Vix

My brother has been a professional tattoo artist for many years and when he started his own shop I helped him out quite a bit so I'm going to throw in my 2 cents worth from a professional stand point. Anything you choose to put on your body should be carefully considered first. Although Tattoos can be removed now it is a much longer and costly process than getting one. Talk to your artist, I think you said his name is Ryan, he will have good advice for you and if he knows you are having doubts or questions he will be able to help you out with them. I think artistic tattoos can be quite beautiful especially if your pieces work together and tell a story. One thing I always remember from my brother is that he had certain areas he would not tattoo. He would not do the front or sides of someone's neck or the backs of their hands unless they were already heavily tattooed. He said anyone place else he put one could be covered. Let me tell you I've seen some unusual tattoos in some highly unusual places. Bottom line is it has to be something you love and can live with for the rest of your life. No matter what there will always be people who will make comments. That's just how the world is. If you love your tats and they make you feel beautiful then that's how the ones who matter to you will feel also. Good luck! Vix

I'll try and give this a shot. This is my baby boy. He will be 3 in May. His name is Shiloh. Nice of Brad and Angelina to name their kid after him huh. Just kidding! Vix

Since everyone has been so helpful, I wanted to update you all. Yesterday Mike and I went to the doctor. He didn't think I was serious when i said I was going in with him but her found out differently. He talked to the doctor about taking him off of his medicine for his blood pressure. The doctor asked why and Mike explained it to him. Hec he even sounded somewhat convincing to me so I was concerned how the doctor would take it. Luckily the doctor then asked me some questions. After hearing my answers about the frequency and my satisfaction with our sex lives he rolled his stool over next to Mike's chair and preceeded to, um gently, smack him in the side of the head. Now I should tell you Mike and his doctor are very good friends. He then told Mike he is on the lowest dosage there is and the effect it has should be minimal. Unfortunately for poor Mike's ego he then preceeded to remind him he is now 49 years old and his body is slowing down some. He also reminded him that the biggest issue is that I am happy and pleased which obviously I am. He also reminded him how unhappy I would be if Mike didn't take his medicine and checked out on me. Hmmmm seems to me like his advice was very similiar to advice given to me by the group here and I didn't have a co-pay for it. LOL The doctor did tell him that he will monitor his blood pressure for 60 days and if it continues to do well they will talk about other options such as herbal medicines. So again thank you all for the great advice! Vix

I just wanted to say thank you all so much! You all have been a big help. I printed all of the replies and tonight Mike and I sat down together and went over them together. We are going to go to his next doctor's appointment together so we can have a discussion with the doctor. We are going to talk about possibly changing his medication, although his dose is very low now so I don't think that is the issue. I think it was Tango who said something about the problem sometimes being in the big head and not the little one and I think that is some of what is going on here. After much discussion I've learned that it is not that he is unhappy with what we do or how often just that he wants to do it more. He thinks the medication is slowing him down. However we agreed that if his doctor says he has to stay on the meds he will because as someone else said, if he dies from not taking his meds I will kill him! LOL So once again, thank you all. You guys are great and I can't begin to tell you how much I appreciate everyone's advice and input. Vix

Hi all- I am really in a pickle here and need some advice so of course I came to you all. Let me start with some important background information. A few years ago Mike had a spell at work and collapsed. He was rushed to the hospital. It was determined that the cause was high blood pressure. Mike was sent home and put on a very low dose of medication. Things for started looking up for him and a HUGE cause of his stress has been removed from his life. Last night while we were relaxing, Mike tells me that he is going to his doctor this week for a check up. He is going to ask the doctor to take him off of his blood pressure medicine. When I asked him why he thought he didn't need it anymore he had no real good reason. So I asked why he didn't want to take it anymore. He then informed me that he felt it was affecting his preformance. I was completely shocked. I told him I was not complaining nor had I ever had any complaints. He satisfies me in every way possible and I am more than pleased with him. He says it's about how he feels and that he feels he is not preforming to his satisfaction. I am not sure what to think on average we make love 2 to 3 times a day. I told him that my main concern is his health. I do not want him going off the medication unless the doctor is 100% sure it is ok for him to do so. I tried to explain to him my concerns but all he can seem to focus on is how many more times he will be able to preform if he isn't taking this medicine. I love him and I don't want anything to happen to him. I've told him this repeatedly. I'm at my wits end trying to get thru to him. He knows how worried and upset I am so he finally conceded to "listen" to someone else's point of view. So I came here to you all. Am I over reacting? Is there anything else I can try to do to convince him that he doesn't need to do this for me? Cause believe me I know he thinks it is to my benefit more than his. I appreciate any advice you all have otherwise I may soon be bald from pulling all my hair out. Thanks! Vix

Great Tat! Tigers are a favorite of mine as are tattoos. Good thing my brother is a professional slinger cause it can be an expensive habit. Maybe one of these days I will get brave enough to post the white tiger piece I have. Vix

Another vote for you! Good luck! Vix

I missed this one too! It's hard to pick just one so here it goes: Anything by Prince! AC/DC: Back in Black & You Shook Me Tone Loc's Wild Thing Salt'nPepa: Push It Kiss: Rock 'n roll All Night Rolling Stones: Honkey Tonk Women Warren Zevon: Werewolves Of London Billy Idol: Dancing with myself Marvin Gaye: Sexual Healing Dr. Hook: Sharing the night together & If I said you had a beautiful body Rupert Holmes: Escape Kid Rock: Cowboy Al Green: Tired of being alone UB40: Kiss and Say Goodbye Ok so I am a child of the 80's. I could go on and on and on. Vix

Thank you for the kind thoughts! I wil be looking forward to welcoming new members into my toy family. Of course it would help if I knew what he bought besides the bullets but he won't spill.He should know by now I can't stand not knowing. Hmmm, I think I'll have to get the feather out tonight and see if I can torture it out of him. Vix

Thank you for the kind words at such a difficult time. After some intensive retail therapy I am dealing better with my loss. You are right as my first toy it will always be special but I decided to focus on the positive and be excited to get my new package. After all these will be the first toys Mike has ever bought me. Funny thing is I remember when we first started dating he didn't like my toys. Now I think he is mourning my bullet my than I am. Vix

Thanks so much for the kind offer but when I got home tonight Mike informed me that my package is on the way with not one but two shiny new silver bullets and a special surprise just for me. Now if he would have just sprung for the overnite shipping!! Boy imagine the stories that those toys could be telling up there in toy heaven. I bet they'd have some intersting ones!! Vix

From behind while sitting in the rocker/recliner. Vix

It is a sad, sad day today in my world. Early this morning during a playful session, my silver bullet passed from this world. There were no signs of illness. It was buzzing along good and then a stutter. What the heck I thought? Mike looked at me bewildered but it seemed ok. Onward we went and then it stuttered again and passed. Now I must confess Mike took the brunt of my anger. What did you do to it I asked as I cuddled it protectively to my chest. After much begging I finally let Mike take it from me. Mr. I'm an Engineer I can fix it, took it apart with me standing over his shoulder watching every move. After alot of tinkering, and a few choice words from me, the time of death was called. I will console myself with the knowledege that it had a good life, in a loving home. I will always think fondly of it because it was my first toy and brought not only myself but Mike many hours of pleasure. Now I am in need of some retail therapy to ease my pain. A new outfit or two should do the trick. Mike has already been online to find a new bullet for us to adopt into our family. We will give it a good home with lots of love and attention. In mourning, Vix

I used to be one of those girls who was all about size. Luckily I've learned that it isn't all about size. Yes I think skill is very important, but you know to me what matters most of all? It's the connection you have with the person. Mike and I share an incredible chemistry. He is by no means the largest man I have ever been with but sex with him is more satisfying than anyone else I have ever been with because we connect on an emotional level as well as a physical one. Vix

Cowboys totally rock but I must admit I like a man in a suit who smells good. Believe it or not the first ones who come to mind are investment bankers. Vix

Here's my goals for 2008: 1) Not to become a bridezilla over my upcoming wedding. 2) To try and be the best Mom I can. 3) To make smarter decisions that are based less on emotions and more on facts. 4) To continue to learn and grow more as a person. I decided not to make resolutions this year because it's way too easy to break them and be ok with it. I mean it's kind of expected that people will make them and not keep them nowadays. I hope everyone here has a Happy, Healthy and prosperous New Year! Vix

One of my ex-boyfriends used to lift weights and he would get excited while doing so. Now I can't say for sure t happened everytime but if I happpened to walk by and see he was working out I would go in and watch him. Within minutes of me sitting down he would have a big hard on. I asked him about it once and he said he usually gets excited when working out but couldn't really tell me why. Seeing him work out and get aroused would excite me to but working out myself never did anything for me. Vix

One of my ex-boyfriends used to lift weights and he would get excited while doing so. Now I can't say for sure t happened everytime but if I happpened to walk by and see he was working out I would go in and watch him. Within minutes of me sitting down he would have a big hard on. I asked him about it once and he said he usually gets excited when working out but couldn't really tell me why. Seeing him work out and get aroused would excite me to but working out myself never did anything for me. Vix

Yea it is so nice to know that there is nothing wrong with me. I like: biting (especially if it leaves a mark so I can look at it and remember the pleasure we shared) hair pulling spanking I freely admit to being bad at times so I earn my punishments. Vix

A 90-year old man said to his doctor, "I've never felt better... I Have a 22-year old bride who is pregnant with my child. What do you think of that?" The doctor replied, "I have an elderly friend who is a hunter and never misses a season. One day he was in a hurry and picked up his umbrella instead of his gun by mistake. When he got to the creek, he saw a beaver. He raised his umbrella and went "bang, bang, bang", and the beaver fell dead. What do you think of that?" The 90-year old said, "I'd say somebody else shot that beaver." The doctor said, "My point exactly".

A Husband takes his wife to play her first game of golf. Of course, the wife promptly hacked her first shot right through the window of the biggest house adjacent to the course. The husband cringed, "I warned you to be careful! Now we'll have to go up there, find the owner, apologize and see how much your lousy drive is going to cost us." So the couple walked up to the house and knocked on the door. A warm voice said, "Come on in." When they opened the door they saw the damage that was done: glass was all over the place, and a broken antique bottle was lying on its side near the pieces of window glass. A man reclining on the couch asked, "Are you the people that broke my window" "Uh...yeah! , sir. We're sure sorry about that," the husband replied. "Oh, no apology is necessary. Actually I want to thank you. You see, 'm a genie, and I've been trapped in that bottle for a thousand years. Now that you've released me, I'm allowed to grant three wishes. I'll give you each one wish, but if you don't mind, I'll keep the last one for my self." Wow, that's great!" the husband said. He pondered a moment and blurted out, "I'd like a million dollars a year for the rest of my life." "No problem," said the genie "You've got it, it's the least can do. And I'll guarantee you a long, healthy life!" "And now you, young lady, what do you want?" the genie asked. "I'd like to own a gorgeous home complete with servants in every country in the world, "she said. "Consider it done," the genie said. "And your homes will always be safe from fire, burglary and natural disasters!" "And! Now," the couple asked in unison, "What's your wish, genie?" "Well, since I've been trapped in that bottle, and haven't been with a woman in more than a thousand years, my wish is to have sex with your wife." The husband looked at his wife and said, "Gee, honey, you know we both now have a fortune, and all those houses. What do you think?" She mulled it over for a few moments and said, "You know, you're right. Considering our good fortune, I guess I wouldn't mind, but what about you, honey?" You know I love you sweetheart," said the husband. I'd do the same for you!" So the genie and the woman went upstairs where they spent the rest of the afternoon enjoying each other. The genie was insatiable. After about three hours of non-stop sex, the genie rolled over and looked directly into her eyes and asked, how old are you and your husband?" "Why, we're both 35," she responded breathlessly. "No Kidding," he said. "Thirty-five years old and both of you still believe in genies?"

If you can stand just one more blonde joke: Three girls all worked in the same office with the same female boss. Each day, they noticed the boss left work early. One day, the girls decided that, when the boss left, they would leave right behind her. After all, she never called or came back to work, so how would she know they went home early? The brunette was thrilled to be home early. She did a little gardening, spent playtime with her son, and went to bed early. The redhead was elated to be able to get in a quick workout at the spa before meeting a dinner date. The blonde was happy to get home early and surprise her husband, but when she got to her bedroom, she heard a muffled noise from inside. Slowly and quietly, she cracked open the door and was mortified to see her husband in bed with her boss-lady! Gently she closed the door and crept out of her house. The next day, at their coffee break, the brunette and redhead planned to leave early again and they asked the blonde if she was going to go with them. "No way," the blonde exclaimed. "I almost got caught yesterday!" Vix

For me it is Micheal, my fiance. He doesn't have to say a word. He doesn't have to say a word. Just looking at him sets my heart racing. His smile makes me melt. I don't even have to see him. Just the sound of his voice is enough to put me on edge. Heck even just walking down the hall way and seeing his picture spins my head. As to why I think it is because we are so connected. Physically, emotionally, in every way we complete each other and that is the best enticement of all. I know it's sounds silly but he is my fantasy come true and I am so blessed I found him. Vix

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