Hi
im 42 and been dating a man 20 years older for 18 months. We hardly have sex because in my opinion he’s addicted to porn and masturbating. No matter the fact I’ll do anything he wants in bed and whenever he wants. Half the time he goes soft because he jerks off too much. He has never once tried to make me cum. He tells me to use toys on myself or touch myself. He cums and doesn’t even touch me or care. When I’ve tried to discuss how this makes me feel, he tells me to F off, stop putting pressure on him, and go find someone my age if I’m going to complain. It’s very hurtful. Am I overreacting?