[My Boyfriend Is Selfish in Bed]

On 5/3/2022 at 6:49 AM, Excited said:

Well I am sorry this is happening to you. Sex has to have stimulation of desire to be good. He obviously doesn’t have that for you. You ever look and see what type porn he is watching. That could tell you what is turning him on to start with. Like me it could be possible he likes guys. Not saying he does. Sometimes we change in our likes. But honestly he shouldn’t be treating you this way. Time to move on sweetie. But check out his porn. 

He likes looking at young men with older women but mainly Asian lady boys. Watching them have anal. I asked if he’s bisexual. He got angry at me.

[My Boyfriend Is Selfish in Bed]

He says he prefers porn and masturbating as it’s easier at his age. But that should not give him the right to ignore my needs surely?

[My Boyfriend Is Selfish in Bed]

I am starting to wonder if I should leave this relationship 

[My Boyfriend Is Selfish in Bed]

In my opinion a man of 61 should be excited to have a 42 year old in his bed. I’m not overweight and ugly. I wear lingerie. Nothing seems to work. Sex hardly happens and only when he wants. He won’t cut back on porn and loves lady boy porn. I told him it upsets me because he doesn’t care if I climax and won’t even try get me there. Relationships are give and take, not one sided. He gets angry when I bring it up 

[My Boyfriend Is Selfish in Bed]

Hi

im 42 and been dating a man 20 years older for 18 months. We hardly have sex because in my opinion he’s addicted to porn and masturbating. No matter the fact I’ll do anything he wants in bed and whenever he wants. Half the time he goes soft because he jerks off too much. He has never once tried to make me cum. He tells me to use toys on myself or touch myself. He cums and doesn’t even touch me or care. When I’ve tried to discuss how this makes me feel, he tells me to F off, stop putting pressure on him, and go find someone my age if I’m going to complain. It’s very hurtful. Am I overreacting?