Wannerer

Do you achieve orgasm only in rare of the cases, when you try with the same method? Sometimes you succeed, but mostly not, even though the method is the same. (I don't mean such a systematic difference that "succeeds when masturbating, but not when having sex", whose explanation is so simply the used method.) Can you think of any reasons, what is differently, or what you do a bit differently, when you succeed or don't succeed in getting an orgasm? Increase enough the speed of technical movement in masturbation? Think or see something arousing enough? Does it bother you, if you don't get an orgasm? Is sex (or masturbation) quite OK nevertheless, or indeed wonderful and meaningful, even though you didn't get an orgasm?

Don't care to throw an estimation, how many percent of times are without porn?

Is it your understanding or knowledge that Amish girls are notably good at imagining erotic things?

Aha, so this makes the afore-mentioned 50 % -- and the other 50 % is with entertainment such as porn?

The intention was that phone sex is included as "entertainment". How much masturbation without any entertainment other than your own imagination remains, after that exclusion? 0%?

An interesting decision, don't care to explain the reason?

I noticed an older man say that orgasms feel much stronger now in older age, compared to when he was younger. A surprising statement. How about others, do you remember at some point of your life that orgasms would have felt stronger or lamer, compared to some other point in life?

How often do you masturbate so that you don't use any erotic entertainment, other than your imagination: - no watching of porn, nor listening to the sounds of porn videos - no erotic books or audio stories - no watching of any photos or videos, not even of fully dressed people - no watching of television, nor surfing on the internet - no watching of people around yourself (no matter how they are dressed) Give the answer as a percentage of all your masturbation: 100 % = without entertainment 100 times of a hundred masturbations: every time when I masturbate 75 % = without entertainment 75 times of a hundred masturbations: 3 times per each four times when I masturbate 50 % = without entertainment 50 times of a hundred masturbations: every other time when I masturbate 25 % = without entertainment 25 times of a hundred masturbations: once per four times when I masturbate 0 % = never without entertainment: I always use erotic entertainment when I masturbate X = I never masturbate, so the question is not relevant for me

If it depends on your will, and your partner doesn't insist having sex in different circumstances than you would like: Do you prefer to have sex with the lights on, or in darkness? A) preferably with the lights on, or in daylight B) preferably in very dim lighting C) preferably in complete darkness D) it doesn't matter, all options are equally nice You can also explain your preference, if you want.

I made a questionnaire, which includes 86 different levels and styles of women's clothing, and 71 styles of men's clothing. Everything possible from the very scantiest strings / bikinis all the way to Islamic burkha. But mostly something much more typical, between these extreme ends. As there are so many photos, for practical reasons the questionnaire is done at another website, and not directly in this discussion: http://melekh.net/quiz_clothing/?lang=en In the questionnaire you are asked to tell your opinion for each style of clothing, how sexy the person in the photo is. So the questionnaire seeks an answer to the question, which styles of clothing are more neutral, and which styles spontaneously inspire sexual thoughts in a passer-by. Or does any type of clothing (or lack thereof) inspire such thoughts in you?

We cannot know the future, but do you have such a feeling now that your current partner in love relationship is "The Right One" for you, with whom it will be good to live probably the rest of your life? Or do you have some specific person in mind, who would be a more suitable "The Right One" for you than your current partner, and who you are secretly dreaming of, to be in a love relationship with this other person? (In that case: what in this other person is assumed to be better than in your current partner?) Is your current love relationship dating, cohabiting, or marriage?

A week ago I asked if people enjoy French kissing. Most people said that it is delightful, but some had the opinion that it is outright repulsive. How about sex? Let's not assume the answer to this question, and see what people will reply. Do you enjoy having sex (if the partner is very attractive)? A) Very delightful B ) Quite pleasing C) A neutral experience D) A bit uncomfortable E) Very repulsive F) Otherwise would be nice, but it causes me physical pain too much

Deep kissing with the tongue is delighful for some, and awful for others. What do you think about French kissing (if the partner is very attractive)? A) Very delightful Quite pleasing C) A neutral experience D) A bit uncomfortable E) Very repulsive

If you are heterosexual, what feelings does the thought cause of having sex with the same gender/sex? In this case "sex" would include these things: tongue kissing, giving oral sex to the other, and receiving oral sex from the other. The sex partner would be according to your wishes, as pleasant as can be possibly found, but anyway of the same gender/sex. A) Utterly intolerable, disgusting Very uncomfortable C) Maybe a bit uncomfortable D) Neutral feelings, neither nice nor uncomfortable in any specific way E) It might be a bit nice F) Quite nice indeed G) Extremely lovely If you are homosexual, you can answer the other way round: how would it feel to have sex with the opposite gender/sex? (In that case, mention that you answered from this perspective.) Tell if you are a man (M) or a woman (W), so we can conclude from the discussion, which gender/sex has stronger positive or negative feelings about this.

When you are having sex with your partner in a long-term relationship, who or what do you think about during sex? Especially in the phase when you want to achieve an orgasm. A) I admire the sexy forms of my partner's body. (Admiring which body parts is most arousing during sex?) Or then, maybe even with your eyes closed: I imagine the lovely bodies that I once saw in porn. (Why? Because your partner's body is not very interesting?) C) I imagine the sexy body of some other person whom I know personally. (Why? Is this person sexier than your partner?) D) I imagine some other person, but not specifically the sexiness of his or her body. (Why? Do you love this person more, or are you just seeking more thrill from a wild fantasy?) E) I think (or at least I hope) that my partner is looking at my sexy body with admiration. F) I focus on my own experience of physical pleasure. I think about my own physical sensations. G) I think how much I love my partner.