I purchased my wife a Hitachi Magic Wand many years ago. I told her that if using it would help her orgasm, she should use it. I left the apartment for a couple of hours so she would not feel weird about using it. I simply wanted her to be happy and satisfied. Now with YouTube and other ways to shop for toys. I purchased a Womanizer 500-Pro. she tried it but she preferred the Hatachi Magic Wand aka Old Faithful. I said I purchased it a few years ago, October 2022 will make it 40 years that she has trying to get rid of me. The Wand may not work so you may need to try other toys, positions or techniques. Good Luck