boongirl

So, I've been with J.C. for a year now, and i cant (yet) orgasm from just sex, and J.C. only gets me off about 1/4 as much as he gets ( he doesnt like going down). So I didnt really think it was such a bad thing to let him do alittle more work during sex, plus he's stonger than I and can hold a position longer. And then he said that I'm not doing enough during sex , i dont make the effort to turn him on, get things started, i dont do my part in sex etc. I started thinking about that, and decided he was right, i could do more in ways. But he also said that i needed to take control in more than just physically. I dont understand? I've never been much into sex more than just physical, but im not a robot. i dont understand what he means! psycological Sexfare!?i dont know what i can do mentally during sex. i do talk dirty if that counts. Sigh, Can somebody help me out here!? -Lil Nymph