Both really I like my rabbit when hubby is watching me play before we make love .But the vibrator the most on my clit when hubby is going down on me or in me. We might be the odd couple out but it's okay. We're not in to other people or porn . We like using our lubes and oils and he likes using toys on me or watching me use them on my self but honestly we don't masterbate without eachother we prefer to have eachother. It's more intimate. But we we have to be away from eachother and do it other the phone that's the only way we do it separately. 🤷
