So my husband and I have been married for 21 years now and sex has always been ok, I lay down and he plays with me sometimes and licks me sometimes to. I have toys that he has bought me and he will use them in me. I can cum and squirts sometimes, when he uses the toys. I has known for 15 plus years that he is bi sexual. A few times when we have sex he tells me how much he wants another male with us. All I says is “I don’t know” and “ I know you want that” but that is it. I know that before we got married he did have sex with men. I am not sure what I need to do or what he needs? Durning sex sometimes he tells me how much he misses being fucked. I am just a vanilla sex girl, I don’t do a hole lot.