[Where’s everyone from?]

On 10/26/2023 at 6:29 PM, all the time said:

Central Iowa. The Hawkeye state!

Iowa here too. Eastern Iowa. 

[Vibrators]

Vibrators just make me numb. Clit suckers are the way to go!  

[Not sure]

On 10/20/2023 at 5:50 PM, 420prick said:

Not sure how much longer I can deni my self intimacy. 

Wife has cut me off sex for about 10 years now and I am finding it hard being involuntarily celibate. Plus no cuddling or any real intimacy.

I tried getting some toys and even a sleeve to really spice things up. She reluctantly looked at them but wouldn't try any of it. 

I asked questions and she says she has no desire... She saw Dr but never tried what he prescribed.

Thinking of walking away but I love her. Iut just can't stand thinking I am never going to be intimate with a woman ever again.

I freaked out and texted her mother for her to intervene about a year ago. My wife apologized for making me feel this way but nothing changed.

 I texted my wife a simple fantasy of pleasing her last week and asked her to share a fantasy with me...crickets

 When we were dating she ripped my pants off and gave me oral telling me she is a nympho.

I love her but I feel so empty inside it hurts. Every woman I see gets me physically excited but I don't want to be a freaking cheater.

 Any ideas help much appreciated...Thanks

Did the Dr prescribe estradiol? That is what she needs. A pill not a messy cream. I had no desire for sex but would try once in a while. Painful awful. 10 years. My husband thought he would never have sex again and just accepted. I decided I was tired of not having a sex life. Tired of feeling old and dried up. Omg…estradiol. Now I want sex more than my husband. Started experimenting with toys. Wonderful.  

[Hello Minnesota members]

Eastern Iowa here.  Strong forearms and hands.  Mmmmmmm

[Hello Minnesota members]

On 5/23/2023 at 4:23 PM, Jake33 said:

Anyone in southern Minny willing to  chat? Or anywhere else?

 

[Some time being single really blows]

10 hours ago, Averagejoe said:

I don’t mind being single but like it’s been said would love to meet someone local or a sexting buddy. Things can be boring at times and somewhat lonely. 

Close to Iowa?

[My wife’s body]

On 8/13/2023 at 9:16 PM, michelleddd said:

What can she do besides surgery?

She might feel the same about yours…

[What's In Your Toybox?]

What are some ways to suction the dildo. I have bad knees and can’t always squat long enough to ride.  

[Vaginal Atrophy]

22 hours ago, JamesC said:

NueEve will solve. As will oral estrogen. Some risks with estrogen but worth it.  I didn’t have sex for 12 years. Husband just went with it. Decided I wasn’t going to give sex up. Now can’t get enough. Wet like I was in college. 

[Lost]

Ask him!! He was honest with you so this is the perfect time to communicate with him on what he can help you with to make the bj best ever! Btw…any tongue piercing can be potentially harmful for your teeth. I have seen lots of chipped teeth.