Did the Dr prescribe estradiol? That is what she needs. A pill not a messy cream. I had no desire for sex but would try once in a while. Painful awful. 10 years. My husband thought he would never have sex again and just accepted. I decided I was tired of not having a sex life. Tired of feeling old and dried up. Omg…estradiol. Now I want sex more than my husband. Started experimenting with toys. Wonderful.