littlebear1992

I lost my virginity at 16. I was on a holiday with friends, we went out, I was drunk, my friend and I were invited to go the afterparty by the DJ and his friend. We thought it was an actual after party. They take us to heir hotel room and start kissing us. These men were 30+ years old (I know the DJs name and looked him up later...) So we spent the night there, in the same room, my friend having sex with the DJ, me with his friend. I was still a virgin. I was drunk. I couldn't say no because these men kinda coerced us into their room and what are we gonna do? For years this was a thing my friends joked about, the funny story about how I lost my virginity. Now that I'm older I can finally see it for the fucked up experience it was.

I'm from the Netherlands!

Does anyone else experience this? I've been in a committed relationship for 8 years and I love him, things are good. But things aren't always easy I enjoy sex with him. I love being close to him, but we don't have the most wild sex, it's always rather safe. We didn't have a lot of sex for some years because I was in a depression and he has some chronic health issues... so now that things are a bit better for me I don't know how to spice it up again (and I don't know if I want to, cause it's good and intimate right now). But before this I was single for a few years and I had an active sex life, one-night-stands with strangers, friends with benefits. And it was nice. I just loved the thrill of sleeping with someone unknown, when the sex is really about the sex and there are no big emotions involved. I sometimes struggle with this. I don't want to cheat and I don't need things to change in our relationship, but it's just kinda sad that I'm not gonna experience this again?

Hi there! I’m a 30 year old woman and recently I’ve been getting more in touch with my sexual side, so it’s nice to find a place to talk. Am also interested in some naughty chats every now and then, so hit me up and maybe I’ll get back to you