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I have been seeing someone that, like me, is in a bad marriage. Neither of us have slept in the same room with our spouses for years. I've been married for 15 years and he has been married for 8. On our first date he told me of his plan to get divorced, and that he was going to start the process as soon as he was done with a lawsuit he has been working on in his Uncle's behalf. I had no plans to divorce at the time. Well the sex is incredible and we fell in love and about 3 months after meeting him, I asked my spouse for a divorce. We are aimicably in the process of doing so. My "friend" has been very supportive of me during this, however he says he's sticking to his plan to approach his wife for a divorce after the court stuff is completed, and that includes hiding his relstionship with me from her till then too. He lives 450 miles to the North of me, and the court case is in my area, so he goes back and forth. Then when his wife was away a few weeks ago, he flew me up to see him, and she found out about me right after that. So instead of facing the truth and telling her he wants a divorce, he is trying to cover the whole thing up, and he still wants to stick to his plan, and the court stuff won't be over for months, possibly next year even. What I want to know from people that read this is their opinion on whether or not they think he will ever leave his wife, or is he just stalling me and he really plans to stay with her?