melanieb

Is 3.75 inches erect respectable?

You may have misunderstood me. He isn't hesitant about having sex with me. He'd have sex everyday if I wanted to. It's me who seems to have the problem. I just can't get in the mood to have it with him all that often. He's complained to me about it many times in the past and I just don't know what to say. I feel that I just don't get much sensation from it. I also am not to fond of having someone perform oral on me (just seems gross). Please help. Should I try someone else?

This is something that's been bothering me for quite some time now. I've been married to my husband for 6 years now. We've been together for 12. We rarely had sex before marriage and I always thought it was best to wait until we were married. I always anticipated an active sex life when we were married. The problem is, after six years of marriage, we still rarely have sex. I feel like I can never get "into the mood" for it. I have come to attribute this to the fact that I feel very little sensation from it. When erect, he's only about 3.5 inches (and that may be a stretch). Therefore, I'm wondering if he's not penetrating me deep enough. I've had to ask him before while having sex if he is sure he is in. To make matters worse, he will often climax after less than a minute. I'm so perplexed as to what to do. Is 3.5 inches really below average in terms of erect size? He's the only man I've ever been with. After looking on several boards such as this and reading different things, I'm beginning to wonder if I should just try sex with someone on a "normal" size. Any suggestions on how to best hand and approach this situation? I have had orgasms before, but unfortunately, it's only when he's fingering me. He's never lasted long enough during sex for me to get to one. Please help. Frustrated :/