Hi! I'm like some of you and am new to this forum. And I'm probably older than most of you. I went without sex for almost 30 years after a very painful and sad divorce. And then I found the man I'm with now - both in our late 50's and all I can say is WOW! Sex with him is incredible. I always thought that it was easy to reach an orgasm, but now I'm thinking that I never had one before. Because now I have an explosive, drenching orgasm almost every time we have sex. We've also experimented with the dual action toys and he's shown me how to use them on myself - which is an incredible turn on for him, too. I think the main difference here is that this man enjoys foreplay and loves making me feel really good. He normally has me begging him for more before he'll actually enter me. So, when we're engaged in the real sex, my orgasms come quickly and are incredibly explosive - and I'm so vocal that I almost embarras myself! He's told me that he loves it when I am because then he knows he's really pleasing me. The only downside is that we live 1500 miles apart, so we only see each other every 4 to 6 weeks. But, my suggestion would be to try one of the dual action vibes - with clit stimulators. You'll absolutely love it!
