I failed to mention what I meant by old-old at even 15 yrs older than myself. I was sexless for the 7 yrs leading up to my dear husband's departure exactly 4 yrs ago (2019) n it's with a sad regret I couldn't help him anymore his ED got so bad bc he was using dope to live his days as he pleased, till 2018, when he found out it was stage 4 lung cancer, made it for 1 more year before chemo Dr ordered 12 liters of saline to be administrated in 5 days but after 10 bags on day 4 he couldn't recover n ended up going to hospital where a wk of oxygen wasn't enuff n sent him to hospice n passed 2 days later! That was Oct 25 2019 he had just turned 69 on Oct 23....so only reason I ever labeled someone as old-old, is bc of the erectile dysfunction he suffered from, n all in all I waited another year (so 8 total) before trusting someone again with my imitate desires! I mean he deserved that much since we were together for 26.5 yrs