dark rose

Honesty with each other is so important. I'm vocal during sex, so for me and my husband, if I sound differently with another partner that isn't a bad thing or something to get jealous about. But that's something my husband knows about me. Talk every aspect out and go with your gut. Sometimes fantasies are best left as that. It can be the best experience or worst depending on everyone. My husband and I talked for a long time before letting others in. It became more enjoyable when hubby was enjoying the experience as well. But a lot of rules was made before we tried anything. But that was something we did and it worked for us..honestly this is something that just takes time to decide. Good luck

Go slow. Make it fun but take your time. Be vocal with your partner. Lots of lube and time and it will make it enjoyable. Communicating with your partner is the most important part. It hurt some for me in the beginning, a good hurt if that makes sense... but my husband took it easy and it's actually something I enjoy now. But it's also not for everyone. I have friends that had bad experiences with trying it and refuse to. So experiment and enjoy, if you don't, stop and you know where you stand on the topic.

I used to keep a bottle of soda with me to chase it down, now it's not an issue. Plus hubby enjoys it when I do, so why not.

Hello, just wanted to see what this site is all about, possibly learning about others and sharing stories.