kitten512

This is a different question than I have seen on any other board. I think I have less sensitivity and feeling since I had my son 8 years ago. OK OK, first I know you are going to ask...if it has been 8 years why ask now. Well after I had my son I was single for 6 years. Two years ago I got into a relationship and it seems that I just don't feel it the way I use to. I mean I don't want to sound rude, but he is a bit smaller than my former partner, but I don't think it is just that. Before I was highly sensitive, but now it is just kinda like blah. I mean he tries really hard to turn me on, but things that usually turn women on I really have no response to. Yes oral stimulation of my clit after a bit sets me off, but literally my vagina and inside are less sensitive. I use to feel it when a man came inside of me now...nothing. My current man even tries to stimulate me anally, and to me it does nothing, I mean literally, I really don't feel much. I use to feel everything, but now it seems like it is dulled. I guess I would compare it to how a man says using a condom lessens the sensations. I would like to know if anyone else has had this problem or if it just me.

Ok I have a different type of pain. I have pain occasionally after sex. But this pain is like contractions you experience during child birth. It has only happened on a few occasions, but on those occasions it has been severe. I have no idea why I have these pains, but I buckle over in pain the cramps are so bad. I even get sick to my stomach from the pain and break out in a cold sweat. I have had 2 kids and that is why I compare them to contractions. It seems that the only thing that is in common when I have these cramps is that I have not orgasmed. Can anyone help or has anyone ever had these pains?