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Well, I have learned a lot from everybody here abour oral, G-O's, etc, and have reaped some great rewards from my wife. She is from the old Catholic school and she is slowly cuming out of her shell. She now enjoys a good vibe and is starting to really like oral. However, she is rather shy about coming to boards like this to learn. Even though I have put it on favorite list, so maybe she is secretly checking it out, I doubt she has visited here. So, I have printed out several threads to help her to learn how to be a better lover. I have given her the Best BJ "how-to" and she is working on getting better. Now to my question, the other day, she was playing with me and I was trying to direct her as to what I like, and she complied, but she is now asking what other techniques are there for a great handjob. So, girls or guys describe some advanced handjob techniques that work wonders. I then will print them out and educate my wife. Thanks in advance

Thanks to all for the advice. I will try the Astroglide first. I had no idea that the warming gel was a problem. After the outstanding reviews on the Jessica G-spot, I think that I will try it out. Hopefully, it work just as well. Thanks again

Thanks for the advice. Question. Do you think the burning is caused by the lubricant or the specific make-up of the "KY Warming gel"? What is about the warming gel that would cause the burning? Do you think the Astroglide that you recommend would cause the same burning?

A few months ago I introduced my wife to our first toy. It is a slimline Vibe (1/2") with a slight upward angled tip. I did it for a few reasons. 1. Everytime I would insert my finger, she would start to burn inside after a short period of time. Even if I used the surgical hand cleaning method, she still burned. I have a new theory to the burning and that is that the lube that I use sometimes (KY Warming liquid) is irritating in someway. I am planninng on trying some astrolube. Maybe the KY is breaking down too quickly and there is too much friction? My wife tends to be somewhat dry at times and sometimes needs help. 2. A lot of times, my wife will complain about my girth. I am not extra large, she is just small and tight. All three of our kids were delivered by c-section so there was not any yielding in size after child birth. She said on several ocassions that if only my penis was the size of my finger, she would enjoy it more. I am only about 1-1 3/8" across, so not that thick. So the thought here was to buy her a slim Vibe to replace my finger. 3. My hope was that she would use it to MB and therefore learn more about what she likes. She said that she used to on ocassion when she was a teenage or in college, but not since we have been married. So far no luck here or if she does she won't talk about it. I can't get her past her thoughts of it being dirty or a sin to MB. I would really love to watch her MB or hear her tell me about it. But no such luck yet. Once she gets going, she really gets going. However, trying to get her started sometimes takes work. The kids suck out all brain matter and energy from her. I try to help, but 3 active boys (12,9,4) takes a toll. On to my question, Based on my reading here, I was talking to her about a g-spot O and ejaculation and she she became very interested. So, the next time we were in bed I tried the finger with the "come here" motion and it was working well, but it started to burn again. So, I stopped and went back to the clit until she came. She said that g-spot stuff felt great and she was amazed on how quickly she got close to the O. I then told her about the g-spot vibes that we may want to try one. However, all of the ones with good movement seem to be fairly thick. She seemed a little unsure and while some of the more interesting ones are good, to my wife they may look a little intimidating and wild to start off with. I am working on taking the "good catholic girl" and trying to wake up her inner desires. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Thanks to all for your advice. I really enjoy this sight and the answers that everybody gives. The answers and advice are not hard core porn type responses, but are advice to how to respect your lover and listen to their needs and wants while exploring and having some great sex at the same time. Thanks to all for the advice and I will let you know how it goes when I get a chance to go south for some good times.

I am a newbie and have loved reading all of posts and learning. What I want to know is how to give the best oral to my wife (15 years). Before kids, she loved it. After kids, she thinks that since she is a mother, that she should not do it. However, on occassion she will let me because she know that I enjoy doing it to her. I love it when she is about to cum and she pulls my head in tight almost smothering me in her. She has started to open up to new things slightly. A few months ago, I introduced her to her first vib and at first she was reluctant but was willing to try it. Now she likes it and on occasion when she needs a little something extra to get started, she will ask for it. What I want to learn is how to give the best oral that I can so that she will come back asking for more. So ladies, tell me what you like and how you like it done. Guys, if you know of some great techniques, I am eager to learn. I figure that since I have limited opportunities, when the opportunity presents itself I must put by best mouth and tongue forward. Thanks