Thanks for the info. BTW, I found the GSpot on Friday night. HOLY COW!!! That'll make your toes curl. Man oh Man. *Whew* I'm lucky to be alive. Anyway, the "toy" came in and my hubby was so excited. We tried it last night. And...drum role please.... It was great. He was so kind, and I never even saw it. I was too embarrased. So he was very discreet. It felt really good. A little cold however, but awesome. He was a little bummed because I was doing his favorite thing... (which, I finally admitted that I enjoy) and I "came" too fast. I was done right away. hehehehee. Anyway, just wanted to give you some feedback. Thanks for you post it really helped me to be more comfortable with the whole experience. Now, i'm looking forward to more. My hubby is already asking when.