We watch porn together once / twice per month and love it. I enjoy seeing what Deb clicks on to get ideas about what she fantasizes about, and vice versa. It has allowed us both to talk much more openly (and much better dirty talk 🙂 in bed). We both got over the "embarrassment" of wondering what the other will think if I click on "that" video... but instead, now hoping that they'll better understand what turns us on.