great job! I second the "its your job to instruct" part! An example..... The man i dated prior to getting married, loved to have the area behind his balls lightly stroked when getting a BJ. My husband loved/required having his balls played with the whole time. Current boyfriend HATES having his balls touched, and would rather nothing go near the back door. LOL. We are all differnt, and so THAT is why you have to instruct her, and listen when she instructs you! ALSO----i never enjoyed receiveing oral until current Boyfriend. He "discovered" one night what makes me cum with oral. he says after a few minuted of kissing, licking, touching, etc, etc, that my clit gets really hard so he waits until right then to go near it, then he jsut devoures! I always cum within 10 seconds of him doing that. Then he will pull away, lick and kiss my thighs, then go right back to it. One night i came TEN times in a row, back to back, all super fast. It was amazing, and beleive it or not, was so mind blowing, i got a headache from it! LOL...but damn was it good! Good luck!