shellity

This is my first post, and I'm very glad I've found this place! First a bit of introduction - have been with my hb for six years and he introduced me to BDSM nice and gently about four years ago. Most of the time when we play I'm submissive (which I absolutely love), but as my confidence has built up, I'm getting much more into the dominant side of things (which he loves!). We're having a baby soon, so I'd really like to spoil hubby with a long session where he can be totally submissive, while we've still got time to ourselves, but I find I easily run out of ideas! We talk quite openly about what we do and don't like - it all started with a game of 'three questions'. We took turns asking each other three questions about what we fantasise about, what we'd be comfortable doing and what we'd never do. I recommend it! But this time I want to surprise him. I know from early conversations that he experimented with paid BDSM sessions before we met, and what I would love to do is give him a scenario like the professionals do. So what do I say? What are some good 'scripts' to follow? Any tips? Any experiences that others have had, that I could take on board? We have a lot of stuff to use - every kind of dildo on the planet - manacles, ropes, blindfolds, gags, rubber gear etc. He likes spanking and loves a bit of anal play, but I'd also like to give him more of what I love - teasing, teasing and teasing! What REALLY turns him on is being spoken to - that's where I have most trouble. I want to talk dirty and dominant without umm-ing and ah-ing. Help me blow my hubby's mind... Thanks, rubbergirl