[Excited And Nervous]

Well I got tired of chickening out and purchased some new toys to use on my wife, well ok me too. I received a coupon for 20% off ending last night so I went and bought a g-spot vibe a small clit vibe and something for me, the Blue man corkscrew, I just had to get that after reading Mikayla's review on it I could not get it out of my mind. So I hope to use them all soon and I'll let you know how this cum out......

[Why Won't You Try Anal?]

Hey guys, I have a question for you. After trying religiously to get my hubby to enjoy and relax during anal penetration - he finally has and LOVED it!

Now, I have quite a few male friends and all but 2 of them says "No way is anything going up MY ass!" In my estimation, there has to be some kind of irrational fear here. If they are with loving partners - why not try it?

So, I was wondering for you guys here who say "no way" - why not? What is your rational for not trying something that is becoming almost mainstream among heterosexual couples now?

Thanks,

Mikayla

I would love for my wife to give me anal sex. I have mentioned it several times in different ways and she always shys away from it. I found the feel doe toy at too timid and Mikayla's article I almost went nuts I thought that is perfect for us to use but I have not gotten up the nerve to show or tell her about it. Now she has in the past inserted a finger during sex and it drove me nuts and we have use a dildo or should I say I used it and then we had sex she did not seem to want to touch it. I thought about buying something I could use alone and then maybe getting her involved later. Help me out what do you think is the best way to maybe get her more willing to do anal to me? I have told her its nothing but about the two of us increasing our sexual experience together and for me to climax more during sex, do I email something I found and let her see the toy or do I work on this slowly and maybe send an article from too timid or mean while do I get something that I can use on myself when no one is around? I love this site thanks everyone.....

[Toy Advice]

My sister has Fibromyalgia, and she is having the same problems as your wife with the meds she is on. It would take her a long, long, long time to orgasm. I suggested to her a Bullet - because, like your wife, she wanted something to enhance sex or oral sex, not to use in replace of. A dual action is WONDERFUL, don't get me wrong, but if she is shy about toys, and wants to use it with you while you pleasure her, I would definitely go with BULLETS or even a bullet with a vibrating cock ring!

The idea is to enhance her sensations. IF she then decides she likes the extra kick, you can move her up to standard toys. Let me know if you need suggestions, but you can just type "Bullet" or "Cock ring" into the box above and get some ideas.

Good Luck!

Mikayla

Which bullet do you recomend???

[Toy Advice]

Ok she finally agreed for me to buy a toy, maybe start out with a small vibrator.. I told her I would used it to help her orgasm while I was doing oral on her. Need some advice, now lets not start off with the biggest thing you got it will scare her off real quick. Now she says she is getting numb will I am licking her. She is on several medications for fiber mialga. So I would love to help her during sex, besides I love to try new things and she is a a little more shy about things. Gspot vibrator or clitoris? what do you ladies think, ok help me please!!!! I want to make her climax, it's fun to watch her cum...and tastes good too!!!!

[Spit Or Swallow]

I swallow everytime! no question about it, my man loves it and he loves the way i taste too so i never feel like im doing something and not getting the favor returned. there is nothing sexier than my man's knees going weak because of the way i suck his dick! and trust me he makes mine go weak all the time! we love the 69 position, he says he loves to look at my pussy while im sucking his dick, i think its cause it turns me on to please him that way, it literally makes me wet just thinking about sucking his dick, now grant it i know not every woman feels the same way and some dont like having there S.O's dick shoved down her throat but i love it and I like the taste of his cum but they are totally right about the salty bnitter taste if there is too much garlic or onions eaten, i guess im lucky my man doesnt like those too much. He has started to be a little more open about new things he likes, lie light spanking and light bondage but i have also found he loves to cum on my chest and neck he thinks it looks sexy, now how do I tell him i want him to lick it off and kiss me putting it in my mouth too? I had one man do that to me and it drove me nuts, but how do i tell the father of my children the man i plan on spending the rest of my life with that i want him to do this? any suggestions?

Just tell him he may go for it, I would love for my wife to share my cum with each other, she knows that I want to, and I have gone down on her after I cum in her or I will aske her to kiss me after she has been sucking on me. It is such a turn on, so just talk to him and explain its about the two of you enjoying each other.....

[What Do Like 2 Have, Kissed, Licked,suced,bitten, Etc]

I KNOW SOME PEOPLE HAVE A FETISH OR 2, THAT MIGHT SOUND CRAZY TO OTHERS, BUT SINCE WE ARE SAFE HERE ON TOOTIMID. LET IT OUT. SHARE YOUR IDEAS, SOMETIMES HEARING HOW GOOD SOMETHING IS TO SOMEONE ELS, GETS A PERSON CURIOUS. I LIKE TO HAVE MY TOES LICKED & KISSED AS IF THEY WERE KISSING BACK, OH YEAH & THE SPOT RIGHT BETWEEN MY THIGH & MY TREASURE. DAM! THESE ARE THE SPOTS THAT DRIVE ME CRAZY.

AS FOR MY FAVORITE PLACES TO HANDLE WITH MY MOUTH HAS TO BE, MY MANS LOWER ABS. KISSING & LICKING HIM THERE TURNS US BOTH ON. ITS A WONDERFUL TEASE, & HE ALWAYS KNOWS WHERE I'M HEADED. ( MY OTHER FAVORITE PART). WE ALL KNOW WHAT THAT IS I ALSO LOVE SUCKING HIS FINGERS AS I WAS GIVING HIM A BJ

DON'T BE SHY.............. SHARING IS CARING..............

Oh my nipples definetly my nipples it will drive me crazy when she starts to lick them then suck or pull them, I go crazy asking for more.. If she wants me to cum she knows all that she has to do is start pulling on them or sucking them..... I LOVE IT

[Can I Ask A Question?]

I go for getting oral more, I know how much it turns her on. I love roleplay, boyshorts, watching her masturbate.

Now a quickie has it's place and I say go for the quickie. A dab of lube and get right to it. She always cums, because even with a quickie, she is really hot and bothered, she is so turned on it's a "right here, right now" kinda situation. She is usually so turned on by the time we can get to it, it doesn't take more than a couple of thursts and she is over the edge.

How do you like your DP? two cocks, one cock anal one toy vaginal, or one cock vaginal and one toy anal or two toys?

men? ever let your lady penetrate you at all? what with? toy, tounge, finger or other object?

Yes finger and would like more then that!!!!!

Would you lick the pussy clean after you cum in her?

[How Many Men Out There Shave "down There"?]

I'll shave there every once in a while and I love the feeling and the look, my wife does not say much, but it is a turn on for me. Besides if I want her to shave I should be able to do it also. If it's not shaved it is trimmed very short and maybe just my balls are shaved......

[Shaved Pussy]

I was joking with my wife today, she noticed I needed to shave, that if I did she has to also. Well she got out of the shower and showed me her shaved pussy!!!!!! Now she knows I love to go down on her when she just shaved it is just the greastest thing to lick her to an orgasm after she shaved. I can't wait until the kids are in bed and I'm in heaven.. Maybe I will get the chance to lick it clean after I cum inside of her!!!!!!!!!!

[Swallowing]

When my wife gives me head (and she is the best)she holds the cum in her mouth and gives me a big wet kiss.I think that sharing my cum is very erotic.I have come to enjoy the taste and it is a very big part of our lovemaking.I can't find too much info on this technique on the web.Is there anyone else out there that enjoys this or can anyone tell me where to find any sites that feature this

I love to kiss my wife after she sucks on me and she does not mind. I have gone down on her after I cum inside her but she is a liitle uneasy about it, I try to get her to let me know when I am dripping out of her so I can lick her clean, on just to sit on my face so i can lick her. I love it and I don't always do it but if you like it just do it. I t is a real turn on for me....

[Male Nipples]

I love my nipples played with and even pulled, it will drive me crazy. If my wife wants me to come quicker she will either lick them,nibble on them or even pull on them and I will come with excitement...I get horney just thinking about it.........

[Anal Toys]

Has anyone used the feeldoe toy on thier partner. It looks like it could be fun but trying to convince my wife to use such a thing will prove to be interesting to say the least. I have always enjoyed anal stimulation and my wife in the past has helped but she seems to be shying away more an more from different things and I would love for her to use this on me..... Please let me know what you think...