Ok she finally agreed for me to buy a toy, maybe start out with a small vibrator.. I told her I would used it to help her orgasm while I was doing oral on her. Need some advice, now lets not start off with the biggest thing you got it will scare her off real quick. Now she says she is getting numb will I am licking her. She is on several medications for fiber mialga. So I would love to help her during sex, besides I love to try new things and she is a a little more shy about things. Gspot vibrator or clitoris? what do you ladies think, ok help me please!!!! I want to make her climax, it's fun to watch her cum...and tastes good too!!!!