can anyone help? im in a great relationship the only poblem is i cant make my wife orgasm i have tried everything i can think of toys oral fingers ect i can make her ejaculate but at the last moment she always freezes thinking she is going to pee. i tried explaining that women do this and that its not urine but shes still embarrased and freezes. im not inexperienced and never had this problem with past relationships usualy a bit of work and patients on my part got the desired result. i usualy concentrate on the clit as im not so sure of the g spot. any help would be much apreciated