I read thu everyone of it, and it just amaze me that you can have more than one O, because my boyfriend have been trying to get me to have more than one, but I just couldnt do it, I would love to have more than one time, and didnt realize the breathing tech. would have made you have more O. I have to try that. My question is when you start having O, do you start breathing slowly before you come or during the time when you are ready to come??