My hubby also thought that if he liked it it might mean he was gay. Finally talked him into trying it and he enjoyed it, but was a bit taken aback by it. We have done it a couple of times, I LOVE it. The orgasms are unbelievable. We use plenty of lube and take it slow at first, you can't just start pounding back there. I like it doggy style or with me laying on my back with my legs over his shoulders. Haven't tried the me on top yet...